i didn't read the first post bc it was so long
but as regards women in the christian arrangement
examining the oldest copies of paul's writings
the chester beatty papyri
https://brentnongbri.com/2019/04/10/kenyons-editions-of-the-chester-beatty-biblical-papyri-online/
that part about head coverings and women not speaking appears to be spurious
paul would not have brought back oral law stuff
women and head coverings wasn't in the mosaic law
it was pharisaical add-on
the so-called "apostolic-fathers" added in a lot of pharisaical stuff later
the head covering thing and women not talking appears to be one of those spurious add-ins
(regarding 1 cor 11 stuff and nwt changes in timothy)
acts made clear women prophesied and were allowed to speak via holy spirit from God