Crazy: The neighbor child came over....there was some strawberries out on the counter....she asked if she could have one and I said no....later I saw her sneak one.
Bad analogy.
Developing good character does demand the 4-year get an adjustment. But to scale this up as though it's illustrative of Eve is a trivialization.
Eve was permitted to eat from "every tree" (THOUSANDS and THOUSANDS of fruit). Just ONE fruit was forbidden.
So Eve event was not about eating "fruit." It was about respect for God's right to set a law limit. It's commensurate with a Supreme Court decision. It the law of the land. Final.