I hope everything works out for you, goodsoul. Please send your letter stepping down quickly, before the co gets there. Is it possible for you and your wife to be away from home for most of the days and early evenings during the week of the co's visit? Browsing at stores, movie night, just anything so as not to be caught off gaurd by an unexpected visit? You sound like you are simply not ready to speak to anyone, and it might stress you out too much. All the best to you and your wife in your fade.
ruderedhead
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CO want to talk to me
by goodsoul inco want to talk to me.
first of all, i am very apologize for my english- i am studying this language nearly 2 years, so it's not that good yet, unfortunately.
also, it's my first topic.
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The Mormons would not let me speak at my Dad's funeral
by FormerMormon in--because i no longer nelieve.
i was excommunicated for "apostasy".
that was their rationale for not allowing me to speak at his funeral last month.
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I'm so sorry for your loss, formermormon. It sounds like you have good memories of your Dad, and had a good relationship with him till the end. I hope that gives you comfort.
As for not allowing you to speak, and boxing you and your family in with the 2 largest men, kind of sounds like a Mormon Mafia! If you still speak to your family, you may want to mention that when you told the story of your Fathers funeral to others, and how you were treated, they were appalled and it reaffirmed their beliefs that Mormons are a strange, unchristian sect that does not really follow Jesus teachings.
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"Foreigners" and today's Watchtower
by 88JM ini know this is true every week, and i say it all the time, and i know blondie will be doing her review later, but.... today's watchtower was bat-shit crazy!.
i knew it was going to be a bizzare one just reading it, but the comments at the meeting took it even further.
i can't post all the crazy ones, but in summary what they were saying was:.
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ruderedhead
Thank you for posting. I had forgotten how crazy some wt studies could be.
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I don't know if this is already posted
by mouthy inplease for give me if it is.
i just received a call from an ex jw who was df the same time as me.. for not accepting 1914..... she picked up the wt at the library,jan 1st 2013 page 8 they there .
admit they have made errors in the dates they have given.....maybe this is why so many are leaving.. they told us that 1914 born folks would see armegeddon .i was born in 1927...i am 86 in may????.
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Thank you for this post. May I add my 2 cents in here? I apologize to anyone I may offend, but what they do when they dance around a subject like wrong dates (false prophesies) they have given as ABSOLUTE TRUTH, calling them wrong expectations, is called covering their asses! They have no new light! They're dim bulbs.
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Being an Orphan Hurts No Matter What Age
by WhoLovesMagic inwhat kind of parents forget the day you were born?
jehovah's witness(es)!!!.
yes today is my 3rd birthday (only started celebrating 3 years ago).
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ruderedhead
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
Please take jgnat's advice and plan a much better celebration next year. Don't you think you deserve it? You've missed enough birthday celebrations!
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Happy belated b day to me: 30 years old on Feb 16th.
by Joliette inthought the world was gonna end between 2000 and 2010. can't believe its still here.
been on jwn for almost three year now.
damn it feels like heaven on earth to be an apostate!
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ruderedhead
HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY TO JOLIETTE & MERCEDES!!! I hope it was wonderful and wish you many more!
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My mom unfriended me on Facebook...
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ruderedhead
It's just facebook. It's supposed to be fun. Block her from seeing anything on your wall so she cannot see what you are posting or liking. Then you don't have to worry about what she is seeing. I know some people who "creep" on others pages, and if the settings are not there, they can see things whether you are friends or not. One of my husbands nephews tried to do this to me. He tried to friend me, and told my husband they could spy on me that way. My husband thought that was OFF THE WALL CREEPY and told me not to friend anyone from that family. I learned how to block certain people from seeing anything but basic info. You might be wise to do the same. At least she will still speak to you, that's something, right? This way you can keep it cordial. Just my 2 cents.
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I have 3 daughters who hate me and 2 grandchilden banned from seeing me. Having a sh*t day now.
by Amelia Ashton inmy youngest who i haven't seen for 6 months came to collect the rest of her stuff from the flat today.. she was cold and indifferent towards me until the dog went for her because she no longer knows her and then she blamed me for everything that has happened.. having trouble keeping it together now..
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(((amelia)))
Hopefully, with time, your children will come around. I hope you can find something interesting to keep you occupied today so you don't have too much time to think about this.
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When some of the old time JW's time is up i wonder what they think in their private moments.
by karter inwe had an old time jw pass away recently he lived his entire life lie the new system was going to be here tomorrow.. he was a gillard grad and went on to be missionry in west africa.. came back home when wife got pregent(they eventuly had 3 children) ,sold everything pre 75 to see the system out and pioneer then had to work his butt off to rebuild his finances and put a roof over his familys head.. he retired and became a co till his wifes health could no longer alow it.. he got a treminal illness and i wonder in his quiter moments did he think ....".ive lived my entire life for a dream that never came true".
he's only one of many i see,their lives comming to an end and the new system is no closer than it was when they started.. .
karter..
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ruderedhead
That is just too sad to think about. His life was stolen from him.
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Looking for a partner.....
by LouBelle inrighto, so who would like to get married?
i'm a great cook, good with kids, can clean and am currently in the process of losing weight.
in 6 months i'm good to go.
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I think the advertising profession is just a tough one, Loubelle. My one child also had an advertising/pr degree with a couple of specializations. She has had a couple of internships, and had disliked the one, and now has a job that is certainly not her dream job, but she is getting experience and paying her bills. I think you just have to get some time under your belt and keep applying for other positions. Don't get discouraged, at least you have something, and you know it's not forever. You will get something that you like better. And all the best on your journey to lose weight. I am doing the same thing, but it is slow going. I'll be rooting for you. And you certainly don't sound like someone who needs a partner to be happy! Your posts sound like a woman who really has it together.