It was an alcohol related event that led me to opening my eyes.
I got smashed one night with some friends. I dont remember much after ine point but woke up in my recliner at home the next day (wife drove home). Worse hangover ever followed. Missed the meeting.
That Monday in service I'm with the COBE and tell him what happened. I expected a long talk and some follow up and deletion as a pioneer and MS. Instead....he smiles, chuckles and says to be careful. He then gets out like nothing happened.
I come to find out that he is a very heavy drinker himself and regularly drinks himself to sleep and later on admitted to drinking with other "heavies" at lunch during the convention.