I'm leaving this thread with this final post:
I've said it before: we often confuse a certain familiar earmark of the Watchtower for "Watchtowerism" itself, and when we leave that type of belief system, when we see it elsewhere, we attack it, no matter where we see it, in whomever we see it.
If the Watchtower served us its cult teachings via the medium of banana splits, we might mistakenly tell everyone how "evil" banana splits were, calling everyone who enjoyed them fools and jumping on any study that criticized the ingredients of banana splits with praise.
In reality, banana splits are innocent fun. A cult can take any medium and twist it to do its bidding--including religion and a holy text.
The fact that I became a teacher of religion and have taught critical textual studies does not mean that I also taught that religion and holy texts of any kind are evil, including Christianity or the Bible. Religion in itself can be good. The Bible is not evil nor necessarily incorrect in what it tries to teach, though it is a product of its time.
What happens to people who leave the JWs is that they don't tend to shred the fear of the Governing Body and the elders and those who taught them their religion. So they invent targets that have nothing to do with what happened to them. Instead of blaming people that deserve the blame, we blame a thing that can't defend itself.
You can't blame a banana split, even though many of its ingredients are, to be honest, artificial. It's yummy.
I will leave you with the following to explain, even though it comes from a Catholic source. It's pretty smart, as it talks about the limits of critical study:
Pseudepigraphy is the common ancient practice of attributing texts to a popular figure in order to assert authority, honor a legacy, or build on someone else’s work. Consider the Ripley’s Believe it or Not franchise. While the original author, Robert Ripley, has been dead for decades, the brand retains his name to assure audiences that his work lives on. Or consider Caleb Weatherbee, the eternal fictional weatherman from the Farmer’s Almanac. If copies of this almanac are analyzed thousands of years from now, someone likely might posit the existence of a historical Caleb. Those of you who are fans of The Princess Bride will recall that the legendary Dread Pirate Roberts was later revealed to be not one person but several people who carried on his legacy, since no one would have feared or respected names such as “Wesley” or “Cummerbund.” Ancient Judaism and early Christianity were constantly threatened by heterodox works like the Book of Enoch and the Gospel of Thomas. To establish legitimacy, the leading authorities of the time often attributed their texts to legendary figures like Moses....
I fondly recall convincing my little cousin to eat broccoli because it was what gave Yoda from Star Wars his strength (and color). Similarly, Santa Clause is an excellent conduit for teaching children the virtue of justice, and George Washington’s ahistorical chopping of the cherry tree teaches them honesty. Children, who are vastly imaginative, craft impressive lore to understand the world, just as our pagan ancestors did when theologizing about God. If Christ had made Himself known to the Buddhist tradition, I guarantee that he would have invoked its mythical figures to teach His commandments, but God chose to reveal Himself to the Jewish tradition, which means Christ had to speak to His people by invoking their beloved characters, both historical and legendary.
Christ was given the impossible task of translating perfect, immutable, divine laws into fallible, changing human language. His words are strictly analogous to a perfect and infinitely beautiful theological reality that goes beyond the limits of human vocabulary. This is likely why He spoke in so many parables. These stories conceal matters of faith and morals, regardless of their historicity. We do not care about who the Prodigal Son was or if he really lived. We are only concerned by how his story impacts our faith journeys. Americans have traditionally portrayed our founders as idealized caricatures, even if they were flawed human beings. When we teach our children to be like George Washington, we refer to George Washington the legendary symbol of strength, grace, and humility, not George Washington the historical owner of slaves. Likewise, Christ calls us to emulate Moses the myth, the beloved caricature constructed from generations of reflection and theologizing, not Moses the man.--Who Wrote the Bible? Three Catholic Perspectives on Biblical Authorship, Clarifying Catholicism
Don't get angry or hurt when someone mentions a fact about religion or the Bible that does not sit well with you once you left the Watchtower. It is not the fault of religion or the Bible that the Watchtower screwed you over. The medium used by a cult is not the problem. The cult did it to you. A cult is people.
A banana split is not people...unless you are thinking of those Sid and Marty Krofft characters (but they were just people in suits). Even if you got a banana split painfully smushed into your face, you can't be mad at it. Someone had to put it there.