I find it farcical, tragic and infuriating to think of my old Mum being frightened and manipulated like this.
So much for mainstreaming.
You sound very selfish. You should be grateful that your mum is being looked after in the event of a disaster. How is she being manipulated by being asked to get a go bag ready and be aware of plans in event of emergency? She doesn’t have to go with the congregation. If you or other family members want to take care of her then that would be the best option. Or she may decide to stay if or when the congregation decides to bug out.
the group overseer and assistants just has to make sure she is ok and if there is anything she needs. She will be asked to have a go bag ready and months worth of medication using the oldest first.