Hi James Lloyd Evans AKA John Cedars, this post is to ask if this is why you used the term "girlfriend" to describe what you did. Have a look at this webpage:
https://www.pattayaunlimited.com/thai-girlfriend-guides/
On this page, Lloyd Evans, will find the following:
Now somebody did the math for us and you likely spent this much:
So we'd better tack on the price of plane tickets which gets us to around $4500. There is no way at least a part of this vacation was paid for with Patreon donations. I look forward to further exposing what a piece of garbage you are.