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  Amber Scorah on TedEX

  by wannaexit in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e7wfpaqcqcw.

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  iwantoutnow

  I recommend reading her book - it was FANTASTIC!
  

  If you are interested in how the WT does things in China, its the only real window into that world I have ever seen.

  She is great!
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  The "figurative" heart

  by Sour Grapes in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  about 25 years ago i gave a talk about how when the bible talks about the heart that it is the literal heart and how the heart and the brain are connected by nerve tissue.

  the watchtower even stated that some people who received a heart transplant would take on some of the personality of the donor.then all of a sudden the borg changed and said that when the bible refers to the heart that it is figurative.

  then when ever the watchtower referred to the heart it always put the word figurative in front of it.. does anyone know why there was a change in the use of the word heart?

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  iwantoutnow

  overwhelming evidence against that.

  I had to tell someone (an elder) from the stage that was was false once.

  People hang on to moronical ideas from the WT for decades after.

  I had to deal with "no rain" before the flood...

  The earth is in a perfect orbit and can not move in or out...

  CULTS are great at creating FALSE INFO - and when no one READS A Fing Book - there is no counter info the ball game is over.
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  First Xmas? Or older traditions? 🎄

  by Theonlyoneleft in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  is anyone here doing their first xmas this year?🎄🎄.

  i love xmas!

  almost around the corner and i’ve started thinking of all the prep needed for family time.

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  iwantoutnow

  We started 4 years ago.

  Oddly it has already lost its appeal, even the kids are not really into it this year.

  It different when it wasn't a part of your whole life I think.
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  The Watchtower stole from me and you too

  by rickroll in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  think of how much time and money the tower stole from any who were in the cult.

  think of the vacations as a child you could have taken with your families the memories you could have made instead of sitting in a hot bs week of echo talks and propaganda.

  they stole so much from us.

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  iwantoutnow

  RubaDub - I spent many a DC at the "Wok". (vet stadium)

  As a new pioneer I was interviewed and the astroturf was so hot it was burning my feet through my shoes.

  Man I hated that place.

  The think I am SOOO Thankful for - is I woke up just in time so my kids lives were not ruined.
  
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  The Watchtower stole from me and you too

  by rickroll in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  think of how much time and money the tower stole from any who were in the cult.

  think of the vacations as a child you could have taken with your families the memories you could have made instead of sitting in a hot bs week of echo talks and propaganda.

  they stole so much from us.

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  iwantoutnow

  They stole 50 years of my life.

  Its like I was in a coma and just woke up.

  I am so behind in life in so many ways I can't count.
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  What can a therapist really do?

  by Thetruthhurts in

  1. watchtower
  2. medical

  hi all, i've not read the forums for awhile as i've been trying to move on with my life but i'm back and posting for the first time feeling like i cant get a grip.

  so i'm wondering for those of you that have seen a therapist and say that it truly helps, what can be accomplished?

  i'm just really skeptical, but starting to feel desperate.

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  iwantoutnow

  From my experience, unless you are dealing with PTSD, or Repressed issues, it was just tossing money out the window, and less effective than just talking to a Friend I Could Trust.
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  how do you perceive God ?

  by stan livedeath in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  what i'm trying to do is ask what theists think god is like.. also--why is he invisible.. how big is he ?.

  in fact--why is god a he--not a she.

  or is he / she hermaphrodite ?.

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  iwantoutnow

  As a fairytale.
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  As a JW Did You Prefer a “Stricter” Congregation or a More Liberal One?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  in my experience, there were three types of witnesses.

  some were barely witnesses while others were extremely conservative types who followed the letter of the law.

  and then you had those in the middle who just went with the flow.. i knew many witnesses who “felt safe” being in a stricter environment.they were actually proud that they belonged to such and such congregation because it was filled with strict bethelites..

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  iwantoutnow

  More liberal.

  Though I knew many total selfreightouse assh#les who wanted rules and punishment for everything.

  Of course - they were the BIGGEST hypocrites!
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  I finally did it

  by paradiseseeker in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  it's done.. during the last month i've been talking with my closest friends about leaving the org and yesterday i finally talked with my parents.. it's been almost 5 months after i said that i would do it, but i think that this extra time has been beneficial.

  i've said several times that i would opt for sending a resignation letter, but after talking to my best friends some of them suggested me becoming inactive and blocking my congregation's elders.

  i've changed my mind and i will do that because the people that i care the most now know what's going on so they won't be worrying about me not attending the meetings.

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  iwantoutnow

  Good strategy!

  Enjoy living your life your way!
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  Escaping a Christian Cult Podcast

  by iwantoutnow in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  hello all.. i implore you to the time out and listen to this podcast where sam harris interviews the granddaughter of the founder of the westboro baptist church, about her experience there and leaving.

  megan phelps-roper.. the parallels to the jw world are astounding!.

  https://samharris.org/podcasts/171-escaping-christian-cult/.

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  iwantoutnow

  I hope some of you listen it to it.

  It is really good and her book seems to be doing well.