saw similar title in a google search so thought i'd read more and now simply have to share my experience if anything to hear that i'm not insane and it is that simple.. met and fell madly in love with a witness, and her with me.
what began as love at first sight turned into a 6 year relatiomship which simply ended very bluntly.
there were many painful twists and turns along the way, first from her inability to leave her husband, then my mistake in finding someone else as i simply couldn't take the pain of her coming and going with such simplicity, but in the end she got a divorce and suffered many consequences within 'the truth', and i sorted my issues which were many and admittedly dug with my own hands and stupidity in trying to protect a young girl who had done no wrong in this long affair.. eventually we found ourself on what i believed to be the home straight.
It's funny Mr Obvious that I have got sympathy isn't it? And resorting to such language 'man' really shows that your opinion really is water off a ducks back.
Thanks for your...let's say input, however incompetent at reading and understanding you are.
saw similar title in a google search so thought i'd read more and now simply have to share my experience if anything to hear that i'm not insane and it is that simple.. met and fell madly in love with a witness, and her with me.
what began as love at first sight turned into a 6 year relatiomship which simply ended very bluntly.
there were many painful twists and turns along the way, first from her inability to leave her husband, then my mistake in finding someone else as i simply couldn't take the pain of her coming and going with such simplicity, but in the end she got a divorce and suffered many consequences within 'the truth', and i sorted my issues which were many and admittedly dug with my own hands and stupidity in trying to protect a young girl who had done no wrong in this long affair.. eventually we found ourself on what i believed to be the home straight.
I'd still like to believe that love conquers all. So in this case it just wasn't love, or wasn't strong enough. I'd fight forever in many ways but not by myself, if both her and I wanted to fight as it was what we both really then nothing could stop us.
I'm so sorry for you Miss Worldly as of course I know exactly how it feels. I don't know whether it's better or worse your pain actually speaks to you and tells you such things. As though I'd love to hear the same, I couldn't believe it any more anyway, it would need be much more than words. Love isn't something you say, it's something you do. There was a time I was guilty of it being something I said more than did, now it's all I do.
If it is indeed the same for us both I'm safe in the knowledge saying you may never love the same again, but at least you can be loved much better and with much more care.
I hope all the best for you MW, if indeed that's it may they both live forever and always miss living just one life with us.
saw similar title in a google search so thought i'd read more and now simply have to share my experience if anything to hear that i'm not insane and it is that simple.. met and fell madly in love with a witness, and her with me.
what began as love at first sight turned into a 6 year relatiomship which simply ended very bluntly.
there were many painful twists and turns along the way, first from her inability to leave her husband, then my mistake in finding someone else as i simply couldn't take the pain of her coming and going with such simplicity, but in the end she got a divorce and suffered many consequences within 'the truth', and i sorted my issues which were many and admittedly dug with my own hands and stupidity in trying to protect a young girl who had done no wrong in this long affair.. eventually we found ourself on what i believed to be the home straight.
So it appears to be finally over, ayyyyy dear. Such is life I suppose.
I'll look to this place to try and help others in similar circumstances, though I'll appear a little too positive for some as I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic.
I thank everybody again for their input whether agreeable to me or not, it was all more than welcome and not just read but heard.
I'll continue to love her as I'm simply made that way, but at least I've given up on her loving me.
Thanks again everybody.
V
saw similar title in a google search so thought i'd read more and now simply have to share my experience if anything to hear that i'm not insane and it is that simple.. met and fell madly in love with a witness, and her with me.
what began as love at first sight turned into a 6 year relatiomship which simply ended very bluntly.
there were many painful twists and turns along the way, first from her inability to leave her husband, then my mistake in finding someone else as i simply couldn't take the pain of her coming and going with such simplicity, but in the end she got a divorce and suffered many consequences within 'the truth', and i sorted my issues which were many and admittedly dug with my own hands and stupidity in trying to protect a young girl who had done no wrong in this long affair.. eventually we found ourself on what i believed to be the home straight.
Oh Rebel that's horrible. Im sorry to hear that, my experience of Elders really is that they're the worst of the worst in too many cases.
I'm glad to hear that at least it's all over for you and you're past it, I look forward to that time.
Again, thank you so much for your input.
saw similar title in a google search so thought i'd read more and now simply have to share my experience if anything to hear that i'm not insane and it is that simple.. met and fell madly in love with a witness, and her with me.
what began as love at first sight turned into a 6 year relatiomship which simply ended very bluntly.
there were many painful twists and turns along the way, first from her inability to leave her husband, then my mistake in finding someone else as i simply couldn't take the pain of her coming and going with such simplicity, but in the end she got a divorce and suffered many consequences within 'the truth', and i sorted my issues which were many and admittedly dug with my own hands and stupidity in trying to protect a young girl who had done no wrong in this long affair.. eventually we found ourself on what i believed to be the home straight.
Thank you Miss Worldly, your thoughts and words are greatly appreciated, honestly they are.
Im sorry as you've obviously been through the same thing so I can imagine your pain. And I'm sorry for anyone there had to feel that/this.
Its entirely over now, 'I dreamed a dream and now that dream has gone from me', I was more here to hear such words as yours as to the nature of their feelings and actions.
And I thank you again for sharing.
saw similar title in a google search so thought i'd read more and now simply have to share my experience if anything to hear that i'm not insane and it is that simple.. met and fell madly in love with a witness, and her with me.
what began as love at first sight turned into a 6 year relatiomship which simply ended very bluntly.
there were many painful twists and turns along the way, first from her inability to leave her husband, then my mistake in finding someone else as i simply couldn't take the pain of her coming and going with such simplicity, but in the end she got a divorce and suffered many consequences within 'the truth', and i sorted my issues which were many and admittedly dug with my own hands and stupidity in trying to protect a young girl who had done no wrong in this long affair.. eventually we found ourself on what i believed to be the home straight.
saw similar title in a google search so thought i'd read more and now simply have to share my experience if anything to hear that i'm not insane and it is that simple.. met and fell madly in love with a witness, and her with me.
what began as love at first sight turned into a 6 year relatiomship which simply ended very bluntly.
there were many painful twists and turns along the way, first from her inability to leave her husband, then my mistake in finding someone else as i simply couldn't take the pain of her coming and going with such simplicity, but in the end she got a divorce and suffered many consequences within 'the truth', and i sorted my issues which were many and admittedly dug with my own hands and stupidity in trying to protect a young girl who had done no wrong in this long affair.. eventually we found ourself on what i believed to be the home straight.
So a marriage in decline then ending after perhaps a year of a 6 year relationship, or 5 years if you don't want to count the 'married' part should be simplified so?
I think if you were to fall for someone then respectfully play a part in their life until they became divorced then you're entirely right in doing so.
If not I don't agree, and think your argument is far too simplistic and somewhat bitter, but thanks for your response anyway.
saw similar title in a google search so thought i'd read more and now simply have to share my experience if anything to hear that i'm not insane and it is that simple.. met and fell madly in love with a witness, and her with me.
what began as love at first sight turned into a 6 year relatiomship which simply ended very bluntly.
there were many painful twists and turns along the way, first from her inability to leave her husband, then my mistake in finding someone else as i simply couldn't take the pain of her coming and going with such simplicity, but in the end she got a divorce and suffered many consequences within 'the truth', and i sorted my issues which were many and admittedly dug with my own hands and stupidity in trying to protect a young girl who had done no wrong in this long affair.. eventually we found ourself on what i believed to be the home straight.
Ahh OrphanCrow at that point believe it or not, and I have no reason to lie, we kept intimacy distant and simply talked of our unrequited love until they at least separated. Made easier as there is a sea between where we live.
Or are you of the opinion if somebody is married, regardless of their happiness you should leave them be?
That an unhappy marriage is still a marriage and sacred? Even though behaviours within the marriage are disgusting and degrading?
saw similar title in a google search so thought i'd read more and now simply have to share my experience if anything to hear that i'm not insane and it is that simple.. met and fell madly in love with a witness, and her with me.
what began as love at first sight turned into a 6 year relatiomship which simply ended very bluntly.
there were many painful twists and turns along the way, first from her inability to leave her husband, then my mistake in finding someone else as i simply couldn't take the pain of her coming and going with such simplicity, but in the end she got a divorce and suffered many consequences within 'the truth', and i sorted my issues which were many and admittedly dug with my own hands and stupidity in trying to protect a young girl who had done no wrong in this long affair.. eventually we found ourself on what i believed to be the home straight.
Thank you Silvia, again it's great to hear pieces from anybody and everybody. I imagine most replies will come from non Witnesses.
See I understand what you mean with mind control. Not in the visceral sense but over years of indoctrination as to the penalties of non compliance.
I suppose I thought she was stronger and more intelligent than that, simply saying mind control I think limits the harsh reality of what she and a number of the more intelligent witnesses are capable of. Almost giving them an excuse, when they actually know what they're doing, they simply think it's the right thing to do because they're so powerfully pushed into doing certain things or suffering such harsh consequences.
That or I was entirely wrong about her and it was simply sampling and taking advantage of the savagery from a beast of the world.
saw similar title in a google search so thought i'd read more and now simply have to share my experience if anything to hear that i'm not insane and it is that simple.. met and fell madly in love with a witness, and her with me.
what began as love at first sight turned into a 6 year relatiomship which simply ended very bluntly.
there were many painful twists and turns along the way, first from her inability to leave her husband, then my mistake in finding someone else as i simply couldn't take the pain of her coming and going with such simplicity, but in the end she got a divorce and suffered many consequences within 'the truth', and i sorted my issues which were many and admittedly dug with my own hands and stupidity in trying to protect a young girl who had done no wrong in this long affair.. eventually we found ourself on what i believed to be the home straight.
Thank you Aude. I have seen a few and reading them has helped, it all helps as though there are many here in similar situations it's still rather an odd situation out here in the real world.
That really is the issue in my opinion, the conditioning. Just don't understand why somebody can't love and believe in whatever they believe without having the blessing and congratulations of others. I think she's always been bullied and belittled and now works stupidly hard to impress 'people' when really she should only be working to please herself, her God and those she loves and deserve her love.
Looking for acceptance and rewards from those that don't even deserve the time of day from her.
Again thank you Aude just for hearing me out.
