I would like to be able to wake people up in my congregation,
WHY?
They are happy believing what they do, otherwise they would have left a long time ago.
You only have one life to live---why waste it on trying to help people who are not asking for your help. Let them live their own life and you live your own life. If they want to wake up they will.
I was raised in the religion---born in. I left home at 18 and never looked back. I have a huge family of brothers, sisters, step-brothers, step sisters, uncles, aunts, nephews, nieces, and all of them were Jehovah's Witnesses.
For years they shun me. I never tried to wake them up because they were happy.
You have to admit that there is a certain calming effect that believing in a paradise earth has on the majority of Jws. That calming effect keeps them content with life. They have no desire for anything else. Why would you want to take that away from them?
It's been about 12 years since I left the WT organization and my family.
Now about 90 percent of my family have all woken up. And I did absolutely NOTHING TO HELP THEM WAKE UP.
They did it all on their own.
No frustration, no walking around egg shells, no wasting time trying to help people who are content and happy in the WT religion.
Instead I helped myself by going to school and starting a business. I just started a few more different businesses and I'm going to be 31 years old soon. I could actually retire now but I love the game and I love working.
And as for my family that use to shun me? Now they invite me for just about everything. Now they ask me sincere questions about the Watchtower religion and the bible. And they listen carefully to what I say.
I couldn't have done this if I had wasted my time staying in the Organization so as to please my family, and wasted my time trying to help them wake up.
If you have a wife and kids then do what you have to do. But don't waste your life trying to help the rest of the congregation wake up.