Thanks for all your thoughts on this issue. I know it's a very common thing but I was just very surprised at how early it started these days.
Nina, we have gone though "my tummy is so big" too. I gave her a similar reason as your doctor. She doesn't really worry about it anymore.
Zoe is a really confident girl for the most part. She is very athletic so I try to emphasize that and encourage her regularly. It's one of the reasons Steve and I stay so active with cycling events and running races. I want the kids to see that we set goals for ourselves and work hard to reach them and they get to watch us cross the finish line. One of the best moments of my life was when I approached the finish line of the marathon and my kids ran out to cross the finish line with me.
Simon says:
What a great society. Maybe turning the TV off would be a good step.
She doesn't watch it much. We limit TV, computers and gaming to one hour a day total. She rarely watches it unless it's raining, otherwise she's tearing up the neighborhood on her bike with friends. I've never had a weight problem so she hasn't heard any complaints from me about my body. From the looks of it, she isn't going to have any struggles with her weight from a normal standpoint. I'll just be keeping a close eye on her to make sure. It's funny, I don't have a weight problem and I run ungodly distances regularly but my own body image is distorted. I'm always amazed when I see myself in pictures because I never see myself as thin as I am. That's not brought on by impossible pictures in magazines. I have a bit of disordered imaging myself and I'm always puzzled by it. Six, my mother in law would be so happy about the home schooling but she would disapprove of the tie dye for sure.
C'mon Ross, your "wee island" isn't deserted unless you've gone ashore. Thanks again for all your comments and experiences. I read them all with interest and there are some really good suggestions. Rachel