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  The Long Goodbye......

  by hillary_step in

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  after a transatlantic discussion with my wife we have both reached the conclusion that we will not be posting to this board again.

  though we see the board as serving a useful purpose for some, it does not at present suit the path that we have chosen to walk to extract ourselves from the wts.. this board is in an invaluable place for those of you who have recently left the wts and need a place to stretch your wings and share you hurt and pain.

  but once we learn to fly, it seems important that we should leave the nest as quickly as possible, lest we become caught in a vacuum between the wts and real life.

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  Hi H-S,

  I came into this late. I read this post and was amazed at the extremely polarized responses you received -- civil and uncivilized. Then, I found your previous post and once again -- Ouch! Your wife is very wise with her advice to you concerning this board. To any objective reader, you have taken the high road again and again. I may not agree with everything you say, but you certainly conduct yourself with great amounts of dignity and class. It's too bad you've decided to leave -- you would have been a valuable resource for many of those making their way here. But, it's your journey and, of course, you get to do it your way. I wish you and your wife success and happiness.

  Not such a classy guy,
  pmf
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  Masturbation

  by CoolBreeze in

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  the title of this thread was one of the stumbling blocks of my study.

  as a single full time father(with no time for dating)of a soon to be tenage son this was a major point of imprt to me.

  the point came up during a discussion on porneia(sp?).

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  PullMyFinger

  Hey there Mr. Music Mouth,

  Is John Prine a good friend of yours?

  I'm a fan.

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  THANKS TO MY PARENTS AND JEHOVAH!

  by militarywitness in

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  wishing every single human being around the world, happiness, peace; physical, mental, and emotional health, and above all: love.

  i'm a twenty something years old male, born and raised in the organization.

  i disassociated myself a few years ago due to my disbelief regarding many things in the bible.

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  Hi ya' cocolocoii --

  You write:
  

  "IT IS NOTHING AGAINST YOU BUT AGAINST YOUR PRACTICE."

  You know what they say -- "Practice makes perfect!"

  So what's the bottom line here, coco? According to your understanding -- the El Dio Supremo is gonna kill us? Heard that one before! Relax ... I promise I'll be having a wonderful time when he does, OK!

  My bottom line is: Be the best person I can be -- including being compassionate and generous. I promise I won't make love in your living room -- if you promise you won't make love on my kitchen counter. God can make love wherever he/she wants.

  I gather -- and I could be wrong here -- that same-gender intimacy is not for you. If so, DON'T DO IT!

  I love your name. Is it Hawaiian? or is it Greek for tainted hot chocolate?

  Keep in touch!

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  Beautiful GAY/LESBIAN Friends Please SIGN

  by militarywitness in

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  :) hello beautiful gay/lesbian brothers and sisters around the world.

  let yourselves be known.

  :)(:.

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  PullMyFinger

  Phewwwww! Mili-Wit,

  Thanks for clearin' up that "beautiful" thing. Because, to be honest, I look like the Elephant Man on a bad hair day! But (not counting the murmur) I've got a good heart.

  So ... what are ya' doing Friday night? In the mood for a wild tango?

  Keeping in touch,

  pmf
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  BRITS v YANKS

  by nicolaou in

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  brits v yanks.

  this is just for laughs, but let's be honest us brits are most definately ahead of our 'cousins' across the water in the credibility stakes.. i'll kick us off and see where we go;.

  [1] the beautiful game.. it's called football.

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  PullMyFinger

  OK, OK, since the name of George W. Bush has been tossed into the debate there's nothing left for us Americans to do but CONCEDE! Any nation that would allow him to be their leader automatically must go to the bottom of any national pride list.

  Fred Hall isn't an American -- is he? I'm pretty sure he must be Australian, right?

  Keeping in touch,

  pmf
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  BRITS v YANKS

  by nicolaou in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  brits v yanks.

  this is just for laughs, but let's be honest us brits are most definately ahead of our 'cousins' across the water in the credibility stakes.. i'll kick us off and see where we go;.

  [1] the beautiful game.. it's called football.

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  PullMyFinger

  I think this is getting out of hand ....

  Obviously there's a lot of hostility towards people because they live in the US and some arrogance from Americans because they do live in the US. I was hoping this would be a community without borders.

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  Beautiful GAY/LESBIAN Friends Please SIGN

  by militarywitness in

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  :) hello beautiful gay/lesbian brothers and sisters around the world.

  let yourselves be known.

  :)(:.

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  PullMyFinger

  Does it count if we're not beautiful -- but have a nice personality?
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  BRITS v YANKS

  by nicolaou in

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  brits v yanks.

  this is just for laughs, but let's be honest us brits are most definately ahead of our 'cousins' across the water in the credibility stakes.. i'll kick us off and see where we go;.

  [1] the beautiful game.. it's called football.

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  PullMyFinger

  In the words of songwriter Randy Newman:

  "They all hate us anyhow --
  Let's drop the big one now!"

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  new, nowhere to turn, ashamed & afraid

  by azzazel in

  1. jw
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  hullo everybody i'm new here, even though i've been lurking now for several months.. i have to say how afraid i am to post, afraid and ashamed but i feel if i dont tell my story, i honestly dont know what may happen to me or my children if they lose me, right now i feel like i've got nowhere left to turn and have my doubts about this place as well.. i know my story will shock you but i cant keep it in any longer.

  i am recently disfellowshipped for immorality, the subject of a kingdom hall witch -hunt and subsequent congregational humiliation, .

  during the process of the judicial committee meetings and proceedings no consideration was given to my real human circumstances nor to the spirit of survival nor human nature nor that of a mother seeking to protect her children from lack of basic fundamentals such as food, shelter and clothing.

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  Azzazel: Besides religion and support groups -- there are psychotherapists. Maybe what you need right
  now is a therapist who could help you process your feelings and your current life situation. If that's truly
  what you want. I wish you the best.

  PMF
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  Tales from the Couch

  by Seven in

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  2. medical

  i asked my therapist if it is possible for a patient to be re-traumatized during the course of treatment.

  confronting memories over and over again.

  painting mental images even more graphic to replace the vague ones i once had-is this a good thing?

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  PullMyFinger

  Hi all, hang in there.