Again thankyou all for your comments i appreciate them so much, it is going to be hard just waiting for the next scan.
I am sure she said she didn't want the amnio as the risk of misscarriage was there.
Because you have given me some good advice i feel able to deal with this in a more positive way and feel able to help my DIL better than i first thought possible.
My dear friend Robdar, thankyou for the crocuses they look beautiful.
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