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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

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  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  I dont think I will be able to....I tried and tried...but nothing has affected her...her mind is set on the abortion...I just wish I had a way to make her change her mind......Q....PS thanks for the hug..
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Well I am very upset.....our relationship is going to be ruinned...Q
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Stinky....That is the same thing that I brought up..and she thinks that her mother will want her the have the abortion...she is an adult...she needs to make her own decision..and stop thinking of what "mommy" might do.
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Quincy

  I know its bullshit...she is a hypocrit...and it makes me mad..because she doesnt want to face the reality...I told her I would take full custody...and that even my brother and sister offered to adopt...but she wont budge....I makes me so F'in mad that I have no choice in this...I want to be a good father to my child...but now I cant.....thanks.....Q
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Josie...yeah she is afraid..and her twin sister has put her 2 cents in too...but I think her sister is just upset that she is pregnant before she is. and I think my friend is afraid to face the reality of it....there are people out there who cant have kids...or have lost due to miscarraige...so I think we should really take this and keep they baby.
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Stinky....no we are not together..she is afraid of her Mother being disappointed...that is the bottom line.....
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Jobz....well everytime we talk and I tell her how I feel...she flips and says "I AM THE ONE WHO IS PREGNANT!!!!" so now its like...I have to kiss her ass...before she was pregnant...we talked about this...she said she would keep it..because she doenst believe in abortion..but now that she is pregnant...she wants the have the abortion.....she just graduated from college...and i think the bottom line is that she is afraid of her mother finding out and being disappointed in her...I dont know what else to say....I am 22 and she is 21. Thanks for the input....>Q
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Stinky...I agree that I should pay for at least half of it....but she doesnt want to go thru the pregnancy at all....but I am upset...but like I say earlier...its her body..and I have to accept that...but I dont agree with it...
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  OK...3 days ago, I found out that I was going to be a father!! GOOD new right? Well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which I am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now I am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but I have to pay for it???? So now we argued about it because of the disagreement...but then she says I am not being sensitve to her or her feelings, or anything...and I explained to her that just because I told her I would support her, in any decsion she made...doesnt mean that I have to agree with or accept it...so now I think after this procedure we are going to have some problems...because I just cant come to terms with putting my or any developing human to abortion....am I being selfish when I say that I can never forgive her for this?? or over-reacting? Can I get some opinions.?? Thanks...Q
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  JW's and drinking

  by DanTheMan in

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  is it just me, or is alchohol consumption at parties and vacations virtually an unwrittten rule of jw-culture?.

  when i was in, i did not drink, and i still don't.

  i often felt almost ostracized for this by my jw associates.

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  Quincy

  I didnt know it was so wrong...b/c a family relative who is an Elder offered me beer once when I was at his house......something is wrong here???