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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

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  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Also too I say to her...I will pay for anything she needs...anything....but I do not want to pay for an abortion...that kind of made her see the light too a little bit...so we will see what happens....Q
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  To all....thank you all for your imput on my situation...I talked it over with her again last night...now she is considering not having the aborition because now we started talking about the unborn child...now she is starting to consider my feelings as well...I told her that if she didnt want to keep it I have my older brother Mister Biggs and older sister Nakita that would adopt it...but then she say to me she would want us to raise it...I explained to her...I think her mom would be a little upset at first because she is just a recent college grad...but then I say to her...well we have known eacother since the 4th grade and her mother really really loves me...Thank you for all of your help in giving me advice and everything...I will keep everyone posted regaurding the situation...hopefully she will go thru with the pregnancy....Q
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  I tell her that all the time...how she might regret it...or how it could possibly affect her having children later in life. and its gonna haunt her later..
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  I dont think I will be able to....I tried and tried...but nothing has affected her...her mind is set on the abortion...I just wish I had a way to make her change her mind......Q....PS thanks for the hug..
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Well I am very upset.....our relationship is going to be ruinned...Q
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Stinky....That is the same thing that I brought up..and she thinks that her mother will want her the have the abortion...she is an adult...she needs to make her own decision..and stop thinking of what "mommy" might do.
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  I know its bullshit...she is a hypocrit...and it makes me mad..because she doesnt want to face the reality...I told her I would take full custody...and that even my brother and sister offered to adopt...but she wont budge....I makes me so F'in mad that I have no choice in this...I want to be a good father to my child...but now I cant.....thanks.....Q
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Josie...yeah she is afraid..and her twin sister has put her 2 cents in too...but I think her sister is just upset that she is pregnant before she is. and I think my friend is afraid to face the reality of it....there are people out there who cant have kids...or have lost due to miscarraige...so I think we should really take this and keep they baby.
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Stinky....no we are not together..she is afraid of her Mother being disappointed...that is the bottom line.....
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  Pro-Life or Pro-Choice--HELP

  by Quincy in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  ok...3 days ago, i found out that i was going to be a father!!

  good new right?

  well then she says that she is considering having an abortion...which i am totally against....so we discussed it...then she started to think that she might have the child....so she talked it over with her twin sister...and she told her to get the abortion...now she says she wants the abortion...now i am upset...not onlly does she want the abortion...but she wants me to pay for the entire thing...so not only am i going to be terminating a developing life...but i have to pay for it????

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  Jobz....well everytime we talk and I tell her how I feel...she flips and says "I AM THE ONE WHO IS PREGNANT!!!!" so now its like...I have to kiss her ass...before she was pregnant...we talked about this...she said she would keep it..because she doenst believe in abortion..but now that she is pregnant...she wants the have the abortion.....she just graduated from college...and i think the bottom line is that she is afraid of her mother finding out and being disappointed in her...I dont know what else to say....I am 22 and she is 21. Thanks for the input....>Q