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  Requiem for my beloved Aunt Flora

  by Robdar in

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  my favorite relative, my great aunt passed away yesterday.

  a little over a year ago, she suffered a series of strokes.

  the nusing home she was in was close to a thousand miles away, but i went to see her whenever i could.

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  Robyn:

  My thoughts are with you. I know it is hard to lose someone. She sounds like she was a wonderful person who enjoyed and cherished life. As well, as she was cherished and enjoyed by you in her life.

  All you have to do is walk through the park and a part of her is there with you. She will always be with you regardless.. she will be with you when you hear the laughter of children playing, the wind blowing, storms passing through, and in the bright sunlight coming through the branches of trees, dancing as shadows on the ground.

  I know this because ?

  I too have losses. My Mom, Uncle Hobart, Cousin Eddie,Grandma Brown,Grandma Jaime, and my Mother-in-law Jean. All within a few years of eachother.

  I feel them even though they are not here with us physically. I hear them through the same.. and as they walk through my memories of them. They pass through, as I hear children laughing, the breezes and the cool rain. Then I am comforted to know they are with me still and perhaps I will see them again. Death may be another door we don't know what lies after.

  Xandria
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  UPDATE ON VICKI BOER CHILD ABUSE TRIAL /SEPT 13

  by hawkaw in

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  2. child-abuse

  i am saddened to report barb anderson and dr. james penton will not testify at the trial.. however, even better.

  penton wrote a lengthy letter and barb did a 30 page document as well.. both documents have been accepted into evidence by the judge and will be reviewed by the judge as part of her written decision.

  this means the documents will not undergo cross-examination which is a good thing.. so if you ask me - a partial victory.. there is more happening that i cannot discuss that is going vicki's way - stunning stuff actually.

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  Honestly,

  You seem to think in one dimensional terms. There are SEVERAL branches of Palmer(s). For you to say I am not a Palmer is narrow minded. As I said, "AS A PALMER ", I think you were vindictive. To air personal family issues on this forum, to tear someone apart so cruelly is uncivil.

  Instead of dealing with the issues then and there. An forcing the abuser to attend counseling. Some in the Palmer Family, left a child at the hands of a monster and in the private hell she was living in. I seriously doubt, much was done.. it is easier to ignore a situation than actually deal with it. Well, Vicki is no longer a child forced to take any abuse from anyone. As a child, she had to look to the adults around her to help her. They failed.. point blank.

  They knew the actions that were needed to be done and did not take them. For whatever reasons, it was not justified to ignore a child in danger. To force a child to confront her abuser with out the proper counseling and support is WRONG. It does more damage to the victim and there was no protection from her abuser afterwards.

  What- ever will come out in the courts. This is where it should be aired and handled. We here on the forum give the benefit of the doubt and until PROVEN otherwise by creditable evidence. ( Not the ravings of a apparently upset person who is coming across very unstable).

  We will stand for the victim.. Hoping Justice will prevail.

  Xandria

  S. Palmer
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  FATHER PIC 2

  by honestly in

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  to notso perfect......what do i have against her?i have known her since childbirth,and once upon a time she was a normal sweet person who loved her parents,then she changed.it started when she met scott i would say.thats when her troubles began after she got married.she started exploiting herself sexually and started makin up the wildest stories about her husband and herself and thats when i realized that she wasnt the same person and i realized what kind of morals she had and she started sayingthings about scott that was when i realized she isnt right.as the yrs went by she just got worse.and now i dont even know her,she has stretched her testomony and much of it is downright lies.i have actual letters from vicky from yrs back that contradict what she is claiming now.. why do i have against her???

  ?she has torn her family apart even cousins and aunts and uncles who can see right thru her.see you guy dont know both sides and you never will because vicky knows shes does enough damage and will come to her senses and her brainwashing by frank mottrill is coming out.you see he is usinh vicky as a pawn to get back at the wts for his own wrongdoing.anyway it will soon be over........i personally will never look or talk to her again,she has been disowned my her realtives,most are not even witnesses so what does that tell you.. for the record many of you may not know this but the lawyer for the wts.

  is not even a witness!

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  To Vicki:

  (((( HUGS ))) to you. As I said to you before, this was a vindictive thing for someone to do. I just figured by the choice of her words and the anger it was someone close in the family. I just wanted you to know not all Palmer(s) are like that and you have our support from this branch. My husband, worked for sometime with children and teens who came from abuse. Wither it be sexual or physical.

  At times, he would want to throw the parents through the wall. An many times, had to restrain himself from doing so or come away from a situation very fusterated. What balanced it all out, was the success of having a child come away from a abusive background in triumph. They were free from the abuse, they were going forward positively and dealing with the issues they had proactively.

  Like I said, I would not know what I would of done with out him.

  Sincerely,

  Xandria

  S.Palmer
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  Elder LIES to Downey, California Reporter

  by Brymichmom in

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  dungbeetle and brymichmom delivered a stuffed lamb to the downey, ca kingdom hall at 12116 woodruff avenue today.

  present were a reporter and a photographer from the downey patriot newspaper.

  while we were placing the lamb at the front door, an elder approached us and asked us why we were there.

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  Xandria

  OMG OMG... I would of loved to see that. My mom started her life in Dubdom in the Downey Congregation.

  Xandria
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  Goodbye, I Hope You All Have a Great Life

  by Robdar in

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  goodbye everybody.

  i have enjoyed my time here for the most part.

  i have made some great friends and a few not so great enemies.

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  Robdar:

  Even though I had not had the chance to really know you. I wish you the best.

  An don't be a stranger... I will miss seeing your posts.

  Xandria
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  She is dying

  by Vivamus in

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  i have never felt more helpless in my life.

  my grandma is sick, dying, and there is nothing i can do.

  when i look at her, i see this echo of a woman that once was vital, strong and alive.

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  ((Viv)),

  My thoughts are with you and your grandmother at this time. I know how difficult it is and the feelings of being helpless. But realize this, you are being the most helpful now just being by her side. Holding her hand, talking to her, loving her. It is a gift that you are giving her. I went through the same with my grandma.

  An I was glad to be there, even though it was tearing me apart inside. She went on to the next step with me holding her hand. Knowing and feeling love and loved.

  ((Hugs))

  Xandria
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  Life sucks

  by joannadandy in

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  all right- all those out there who own pets, or have owned pets will hopefully see my point of view and understand.

  the rest of you can point and laugh at my weakness.... my cat is dying.

  she is 119 in people years, i guess it's to be expected that she go sometime, but still it sucks!

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  (((( Joanna )))):

  I know how tough it is to lose a friend even a furry one. She was content to be with you, and you were repaying her for years of love by being there until the end. It is okay to grieve I don't think it is silly. Your cat was a family member, listener of troubles, and cuddler in all times.

  (((Hugs))) Sometimes I think of the 9 lives. She may of gone on to live another...and perhaps you will meet a kitty that gives you that knowing look and a secret smile.

  Xandria
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  by Prisila in

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  edited by - prisila on 14 september 2002 16:46:17.

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  Xandria

  OMG Zero hour is HERE already ???!!! Runnn n for the hills..!!

  LOL

  Xandria
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  creating romance

  by SPAZnik in

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  what is the most romantic thing.

  got any womantic storwees?.

  i'll tell you mine if u tell me yours!

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  Um Syn:

  When you do that don't squeeze her too hard or she may slip right out,of your arms; against the wall and knock herself out. Otherwise a massage is yummy for both partners.

  .o0( All naughty fun )

  A Naughty Mind is a Terrible Thing to Waste!

  Xandria
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  UPDATE ON VICKI BOER CHILD ABUSE TRIAL /SEPT 13

  by hawkaw in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  i am saddened to report barb anderson and dr. james penton will not testify at the trial.. however, even better.

  penton wrote a lengthy letter and barb did a 30 page document as well.. both documents have been accepted into evidence by the judge and will be reviewed by the judge as part of her written decision.

  this means the documents will not undergo cross-examination which is a good thing.. so if you ask me - a partial victory.. there is more happening that i cannot discuss that is going vicki's way - stunning stuff actually.

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  Xandria

  I am not Sarah .. I am a distant relative to the Palmer Line you decend from..As a Palmer ( like I said before) it is sad to see family tearing eachother apart. The He said, She said, is vindictive and doesn't solve the situation.

  Nor is this Board for tearing up a victim ( regardless on how you feel about her behavior). By doing so you insult the survivors of abuse, rape, etc, who post here.

  S. Palmer

  aka Xandria