Being a non jw and after reading everything on this site last couple of months and reading this thread and even though I may not understand a lot of it (or probably never will) it has had me hooked. How they can tread people like this I will never understand. I have total admiration of you and how you dealt with this and can I wish you all the best for the future. Have recently discovered "the ex" sat on these and totally screwed up the life of someone on this site a few years ago. to the point of him making threats against "the ex". Makes me wonder how may more lifes he ****** up. RayPublisher - I salute you! Thank you.
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Apostasy Trial - Part 4
by RayPublisher inthe second 45 minute video is now online:.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7zcvocgamqg&feature=youtu.be.
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It's the 46th anniversary of Star Trek TV series
by moshe ingoogle reminds us how long ago this was, 1966 (or was it 67?
) - i was a teenager in high school and guess what?
i never saw one eposode on local tv.
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ABOUT TERRY
by Quentin interry was admitted to the hospital yesterday.
he has a severe case of cellulites which has affected his neck glands.
his face and neck are very swollen.
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Relationship Issues: Boundaries, Freedom of Choice and Codependency
by 00DAD inrelationship issues: boundaries, freedom of choice and codependency .
i just read a very interesting thought in the book, "boundaries" by cloud & townsend.
the basic problem in human relationship is that of freedom.
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00DAD - Definitely an ex. Just stirs up all these feelings. I read the posts on here and think I am so lucky as never got involved in the jw part of his life and compared to most on here I have been very lucky. That said I can relate to the controlling part of it. Being a COBE he knows just what to say/do to make me feel crap and useless. I need to be stronger and not reply/answer. I know this is the way he is being controlling. He says jump and I ask how high. Thanks for your advise.
ps did a search on here for him and looks like he has annoyed someone else in the past.....
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Relationship Issues: Boundaries, Freedom of Choice and Codependency
by 00DAD inrelationship issues: boundaries, freedom of choice and codependency .
i just read a very interesting thought in the book, "boundaries" by cloud & townsend.
the basic problem in human relationship is that of freedom.
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Nuthouse Escapee - My JW ex used to use 'the silent treatment' on me. Worked for a long time, I would always cave. Then I woke up and realized this was a lack of unconditional love and disrespectful. It's been a valuable learning experience.
Exactly what the ex did to me. I am still struggling with the control he had over me and today a bad day - has been in touch!! All good intentions out the window. Hate myself for the way he makes me feel and his control still.
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Heading soccer balls, wearing designer clothes, and driving hybrid vehicles - all condemned in the latest Awake
by cedars infor those who are interested, the november 2012 awake!
is now available for download online.. among items of possible interest are some of the latest examples of fear-mongering "armageddon art" on pages 12 and 14.... .
speaking of armageddon, you will be sad to hear that the criteria for surviving the great day of god's wrath just got a little more stringent.. there are a number of extra things in this month's awake!
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Best British Bands
by outsmartthesystem inon a lighter note......what do you think?
here's my top ten.
1) beatles.
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Best British Bands
by outsmartthesystem inon a lighter note......what do you think?
here's my top ten.
1) beatles.
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Who killed all the Daleks?
by TheClarinetist inhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tuhlr9fjl2w&feature=player_detailpage.
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