Auset,
Sorry about your brother.It does make you sick!
I bet there's lots of stories like ours out there.This is WT history repeating itself once again.
My mother has control of my dad once again and she's just attempting to get her way with me too.Of course I know she believes she knows whats best for me and my family so in her mind, that justifies her bad behavior.
Ranchette
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My JW Mothers' Words Of "Love"
by Ranchette inwell, i just received a letter from my mom and i dont know how to describe my feelings at this time.
i thought id share parts of it with you and see what yall think.
i will delete names and add my own words in parenthesis to describe whom shes talking about.. after a few lines of small talk she says this..........i do want to tell you, since (you and your husband) have rejected the truth, i am so glad (your son) is not old enough to join or be drafted into the military.
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My JW Mothers' Words Of "Love"
by Ranchette inwell, i just received a letter from my mom and i dont know how to describe my feelings at this time.
i thought id share parts of it with you and see what yall think.
i will delete names and add my own words in parenthesis to describe whom shes talking about.. after a few lines of small talk she says this..........i do want to tell you, since (you and your husband) have rejected the truth, i am so glad (your son) is not old enough to join or be drafted into the military.
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Blondie,
I put these sites on my favorites list so I can read over these when I get time.Thanks
Yes,I have worked on this some but its a lifetime project, it seems.I always welcome new material.
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My JW Mothers' Words Of "Love"
by Ranchette inwell, i just received a letter from my mom and i dont know how to describe my feelings at this time.
i thought id share parts of it with you and see what yall think.
i will delete names and add my own words in parenthesis to describe whom shes talking about.. after a few lines of small talk she says this..........i do want to tell you, since (you and your husband) have rejected the truth, i am so glad (your son) is not old enough to join or be drafted into the military.
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Farkle,
That's the question I kept asking,What facts?Did you notice that she's now a prophetess too?
She said "I foresee"......Ranchette
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My JW Mothers' Words Of "Love"
by Ranchette inwell, i just received a letter from my mom and i dont know how to describe my feelings at this time.
i thought id share parts of it with you and see what yall think.
i will delete names and add my own words in parenthesis to describe whom shes talking about.. after a few lines of small talk she says this..........i do want to tell you, since (you and your husband) have rejected the truth, i am so glad (your son) is not old enough to join or be drafted into the military.
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Blackman,
I feel for you too! Any normal mother would check on her son in a situation like this no matter how bad family relations are, or your standing in the org. I’ve been learning the same lessons about “worldly people.” They are free to show genuine love. I see a huge difference in real love and the conditional love from the organization.Arorer,
Thank you for your kind words.
I’ve been thinking the same thing about the Talaban and Jws being equally impossible to reason with because they are both cults. One more physically dangerous than the other but both hold members in bondage mentally and emotionally.Ranchette
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My JW Mothers' Words Of "Love"
by Ranchette inwell, i just received a letter from my mom and i dont know how to describe my feelings at this time.
i thought id share parts of it with you and see what yall think.
i will delete names and add my own words in parenthesis to describe whom shes talking about.. after a few lines of small talk she says this..........i do want to tell you, since (you and your husband) have rejected the truth, i am so glad (your son) is not old enough to join or be drafted into the military.
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Blondie,
I love your handle,Blondie was one of my favorite singers when I was a teenager.Your right,I delt with this abuse my whole life!
Oh the stories I could tell you.
In another thread I called her a master manipulater and emotional blackmail expert.
Yes, I love her but sometimes I wonder, why? I don't have the answer.I just do,no matter what she pulls.
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Emergency !!!! Can Any One Help?
by Ranchette inthis plea for help goes out to anyone in the st louis mo area.. okay this is the situation, my father and sister are both disfellowshipped and have been sharing an apt.
since my mom and dad have been separated.. my dad was being kind to my sister who was in need after her divorce.. she was the typical jw just, high school education then depending on a man.
dad agreed to let her live rent free till jan when she graduates from dental school.
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Lilacs,
Thanks for the input.This has come up so suddenly with virtually no notice!I'll have her check on a transfer.
Between this and the awful letter I got from mom today, I'm feeling like we have pretty shitty parents!!
We've never been able to trust or depend on them.
I know my sister is not their responsibility but I expect them to follow through on promises.
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My JW Mothers' Words Of "Love"
by Ranchette inwell, i just received a letter from my mom and i dont know how to describe my feelings at this time.
i thought id share parts of it with you and see what yall think.
i will delete names and add my own words in parenthesis to describe whom shes talking about.. after a few lines of small talk she says this..........i do want to tell you, since (you and your husband) have rejected the truth, i am so glad (your son) is not old enough to join or be drafted into the military.
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I want to thank every one for their kind words.I have gotten about one letter a month since I quit, and each one is hard to deal with.After the first ones I tried to reason with her.I quickly found out how futile that is when your dealing with a master manipulater,emotional blackmail expert,cult member! These letters hurt. It's pretty bad when I know how I'm going to be treated but still want to hear from her anyway.
Several of you have advised me to reasure her of my love.I guess that is good advice because after the hurt thats the only thing I can do that wont make things worse.
I do think of funny crazy things I could do to lighten things up.A good sense of humor is always helpful.But they wouldn't help either in the long run but are fun to think about anwway.
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Emergency !!!! Can Any One Help?
by Ranchette inthis plea for help goes out to anyone in the st louis mo area.. okay this is the situation, my father and sister are both disfellowshipped and have been sharing an apt.
since my mom and dad have been separated.. my dad was being kind to my sister who was in need after her divorce.. she was the typical jw just, high school education then depending on a man.
dad agreed to let her live rent free till jan when she graduates from dental school.
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This plea for help goes out to anyone in the ST Louis Mo area.
Okay this is the situation, my father and sister are both disfellowshipped and have been sharing an apt. Since my mom and dad have been separated.
My dad was being kind to my sister who was in need after her divorce.
She was the typical Jw just, high school education then depending on a man. Dad agreed to let her live rent free till Jan when she graduates from dental school. She also has a job makes around 200.00 a week and between school and truck payment not enough left for rent.
Dad just jerked the rug out from under her with no offer of help!
The WTC thing scared him so he’s going back to mom and the organization. She has to be out by this Friday. She’s homeless. I don’t even live in the same state or she could stay with me till she graduates.
She needs a situation where she can clean and do laundry for her keep for a while. Male or female, it doesn’t matter.
I always try to let her solve her own problems but this was not her fault.
I just thought I’d throw this out there and see what happens.
If you have any ideas please email me.
Thank You,
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Here's to you Shep
by radar ini have just had the sad task of taking my dog shep, to the vet.
he had to be put to sleep.
we had shep 14 yrs.
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Radar,
I feel your pain.I just lost my dog friday.He was a pomeranian.
He became an escape artist at the worst time of the day (when school gets out)and was hit by a car!
I am sorry for your loss and mine.
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My JW Mothers' Words Of "Love"
by Ranchette inwell, i just received a letter from my mom and i dont know how to describe my feelings at this time.
i thought id share parts of it with you and see what yall think.
i will delete names and add my own words in parenthesis to describe whom shes talking about.. after a few lines of small talk she says this..........i do want to tell you, since (you and your husband) have rejected the truth, i am so glad (your son) is not old enough to join or be drafted into the military.
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Well, I just received a letter from my mom and I don’t know how to describe my feelings at this time. I thought I’d share parts of it with you and see what yall think. I will delete names and add my own words in parenthesis to describe whom she’s talking about.
After a few lines of small talk she says this……….”I do want to tell you, since (you and your husband) have rejected the truth, I am so glad (your son) is not old enough to join or be drafted into the military. Thoughts came to my mind of what it would be like to have him be sent back in a body bag, and I suppose that would be a real possibility since you’ve allowed them to take part in other worldly things. Of course if it takes years, like they say it might, I guess the possibility is still there.
When they do squelch the majority of terrorism, I can see the possibility of the notable cry of Pease and Security, since the US and allies and even some who aren’t allies are drawn together in this. There is no turning back the wheels that are in motion. And I for one am so glad to have the truth and know what the future really holds.
I do foresee if the end comes in our lifetimes, which I know you reject evidently like other truths of Gods word, that just as Jesus foretold, children will deliver up parents. Luke 21:16&17 By that time you’ll be so far removed from natural affection that when pressure is put on you, you won’t give it a second thought and certainly since (your husband) has been terribly hurt over and over by his parents, he probably wouldn’t have any qualms of doing so. I know you don’t believe this will ever happen in your case.
I’m stating fact, not trying to be meant.
Anyway time will tell how everything works out. The truth of Jehovah’s word is the truth
And it has been fulfilled that he would unite people in true worship, whether we accept that or not. It’s also been fulfilled that there are those before the end who have beaten their swords into plow shears.
They can never be accused of taking innocent lives, and Jehovah is the one that will judge and execute those inside and outside the Christian cong. who are committing wicked acts and refusing to do his will"………….
I love you and my grandchildren dearly,
Love,
Mom