Would like to add a story that sad posts about emotional neglect in the congregations had me thinking about last night;
A sister in the congregation I attended once told me bitterly about her dead son.
He had been raised a witness but had been disfellowshipped because he was gay, she said he had gone out into the world and he had gotten infected with HIV, he later came back to the 'truth' and died at home with her.
She was sad and bitter but she talked like he more or less got what he deserved (from a biblical standpoint, she obviously loved her son) . . . and I'll never forget how she summmed it up . . .
"He came back to the truth but he was too sick to preach , he couldn't even DO ANYTHING for Jehovah!"
Even though I had either been actively in the organization or actively believing it was the truth at that point in my life I was very disturbed at her attitude and how whe felt obligated to feel.
I remember wondering why she felt an Omnipotent god needed a human to
DO ANYTHING for him.
glad to get that off my chest
raven101