Yes HiddenPimo listening to both sides is best and ultimately you will do what you feel is best and live with it as a man should. When I left my wife cried and made threats. I loved her dearly, but told her I would rather my kids hate me till I died than fir them to realize I lived a lie and forced them to do the same.
In a few months she began to understand my decision and studied and researched till she realized I was telling the truth.
She left and next looked back. Our family is stronger and we arent hiding. Just my story, not every outcome is the same but you deserve to live a genuine life. You only have one