This is such an interesting subject that only those who have been physically in JWs at some point would ever understand.
Im looking for a way to be PIMA, agnostic means not to commit but keep that small amount of hope that the Bibles promises may have some truth to them. This is the same as PIMI’s all they have is hope of the Bibles promises.
But to have a plan B. If JWs are wrong about many things (I think almost certainly they are) don’t waste too much time as a PIMI would. Keep an open mind and stay objective.
Is it possible to only take the good things about staying physically in? I love all the social aspects the meeting and assemblies and meeting up with the friends but hate knocking on doors. So I often go to the ministry groups and the meet ups after but say I’m doing street work or letter writing in the park but never even do that, and often elders tell me off and say you really should do some first call. I will not be pushed into doing anything I don’t won’t to do. But I like going back for refreshments after.
But I’m seeing more and more doing less and less. So many younger brothers are being pushed to ‘reach out’ but they are not interested in that, but they like the friends in the congregation.
So what I see happening is a massive sea change in the Borg. My advice is enjoying the good things and find it interesting but don’t waste any time doing anything you don’t want to do. Don’t let them get into your mind keep your own mind when you read the Bible and always think it may be true or it may not be.