Being an UBM the WTS has a get out of jail card for the likes of me. It’s that whole “ Spiritual threatening “ crap and they won’t bat an eye about granting my wife a divorce without getting disfellowed. Hell, they would even encourage it if she went to the elders with any martial problems.
Hell I think they would be setting her up even before the ink was dry.
Being gay poses no challenges for the WTS. Homosexual unions are not recognized and you would be booted out.