My fiancé has student debt that she will never pay off unless we get rich. With a child on the way I’m not sure that’s going to happen… Well, she is part of a successful family owned company so who knows..?
I have to say there are certain aspects of Fatherhood that I’m not looking forward to at my age. I just know how hard it is because I was married 25 years as a JW. At least I was young and dumb and had more energy to use back then.
I certainly didn’t plan on having a child to fulfill some inner need. Shit… I’m rapidly approaching the “Get off my lawn!” stage of life..
TBH, if I was financially well off, I can’t say that I wouldn’t date younger women. Not 18 year old children for sure but that’s just me… The reality is that I will never know a life that’s free of the hang-ups and guilt and fear that come from being raised a JW.
DD 😕