The whole “Spirituality” as currency mindset is terrible. I’ve seen HOT JW women with lesser men just because they were Elders and very “spiritual.” These same women loved it when I took my shirt off at the pool…
Meanwhile, my life was Hell because I couldn’t get appointed as a Ministerial Servant because I wasn’t “spiritual” and didn’t get 10 hours in Field Service every month. Not an average of 10 hours mind you, but 10 hours after working 60-70 hours a week to support a family while the vehicle I paid for and put gas in was used to haul JWs in the “life saving” work.
I can’t tell you how many miserable nights I spent with a woman who wanted the status of a “spiritual” man who was going places in the Borg.
DD