A warm welcome to you, Stealth
I, too, was raised a JW and it took many months of lurking before I got up the courage to post. But once I did, I wondered what took me so long. There are so many wonderful folks here. I'm so glad you joined us! The more the merrier.
Also, I'm not df'd or da'd. I just walked out, never to return. I too have family within the org. It's hard, but at least now after months of 'deprogramming' I can sleep at night not feeling like god is going to kill me at armageddon.
Please stick around. I'd love to hear some more of your experiences when you feel up to posting them.
riz