Butalbee,
You said: "Yeah, probably some nice innocent little dub fallen head over heels for him, hoping to marry him and have little dub babies. Oh, Christ--what if they get married??
What if they do get married? Perhaps what you are feeling is not jealousy, per se. Perhaps it is a feeling of inadequecy and anger? That somehow, even though you know it is right that you ended the relationship, you feel anger that somebody else may be better suited to his needs than you were?
I hope I am not coming across as harsh here. It has always been my experience that emotions are layered. I am just trying to help you get through the layers of the "jealousy" that you are feeling.
You said: "I told her if she ever see's this girl at work to call me."
Now, why on earth would you want her to do that? Are you going to confront this girl? Why are you directing your emotions towards this young lady? She is innocent in this. She may not even know about you. To her, your former boyfriend is a treasure that you discarded. Why ruin her happiness? Why ruin your happiness? You did make the choice to break up with him. You have moved on. Shouldn't you let him do the same?
Love,
Robyn
Edited by - robdar on 26 August 2002 11:18:20