The following is my post from another thread. It seems appropriate in this one:
I never wanted to have children. Why bring them into the world only to suffer and eventually die? To me, that would be selfish. Then I got pregnant, which was odd because I was on birth control pills. Of course this was 23 years ago and the pill wasn't as effective as it is now.
I considered my options and could not bring myself to have an abortion. So, I gave birth to my only child. I am so glad that I did. I learned what it is to totally and unselfishly love another human being, to put his interests above my own. I learned so much through my conversations with him. I actually had my faith in the possibilities of the human race restored. I also think that having my child kept me out of trouble because I was a rebel without a clue when I was a young adult.
When my son was 5 years old, he overheard a friend and me talking about her abortion. Later that day he asked me what an abortion was. I told him that an abortion is when a pregnant woman, for whatever reason, maybe it was because she didn't have a husband, or enough money to raise a child, decided that she didn't want to be pregnant anymore and went to the doctor who used a small vacuum to take the pregnancy cells out of her belly so that she would no longer be pregnant.
I asked my son if he understood what I was saying. He put down his Leggos and ran up to me throwing his arms around my legs. He said "Mommy, I am so glad that you had me and not an abortion because I love you". I picked my son up, hugged him to me and told him how very much I loved him and how happy I was that I didn't have an abortion.
I still cry when I think about that day 17 years ago. I am glad that I didn't have an abortion. I am so happy that my son is here, in this world. His existence still gives me hope for the future of humankind.
If there had never been a child in my life, what joy would there have been for me? Not much. I doubt that I would even be alive. By giving life to my child, he in return gave life to me.
Robyn