Posts by Robdar

i have a female friend who has dated a guy for over a year simply for the sex.. a lot of people i know have zero desire to get married or to be in a very serious relationship but of course, they still want sex.. what do you think of this?.

Robdar

You both know what I mean.

Oh, you prefer the "giddy up cowgirl" position? I should have known that about you, sorry!

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Health Care Reform Bill Passes - Now What?

by BizzyBee in

jw
friends

celebration for some and gnashing of teeth for others.

some are feeling angry and wounded tonight.

some are celebrating vindication after much rhetoric and inaccuracies.

Robdar

BFD???

OMG, I think I sudenly like Joe Biden.

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If You're Single What's Your View Of Dating For Mostly A "Booty Call"?

by minimus in

i have a female friend who has dated a guy for over a year simply for the sex.. a lot of people i know have zero desire to get married or to be in a very serious relationship but of course, they still want sex.. what do you think of this?.

Robdar

How can you have sex with someone without having deep feelings for that person?

Oh, there are lots of ways. Start with this one and see where it leads you: On your back, toes in the air, legs wrapped tightly around his torso.

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Waht do you think of Russian/overseas brides who go after western older men???

by Witness 007 in

my witness mate says he's going to go to the philippines to find himself a witness wife....i've seen a number of them here with much older men....sometimes they have kids and all........what you think?

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p.s don't ya hate that friggin add on here....make me look like a dirty perv at work!!!!!!

Robdar

"caveat emptor," let the buyer beware.

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Help please - my wife wants a divorce

by IMHO in

i've read some old posts and they don't really fit my situation.. my wife just told me she wants a divorce and that's it after nearly 20 years., she doesn't want to try to work on it.. other posts talk about friends and family.

i have no family and no friends (due to a lot of traveling).. i went back to my hometown a year ago (after many years away) and even then old friends treated me as a stranger, like they've moved on.. i've had a lot of emotional / mental problems, basically a breakdown so have found it impossible to fulfill my role as a husband for many years, emotionally and physically and she said she's had enough, although she's never talked about it before.. she went out and had an unplanned one-night-stand.

i forgive me but she says she doesn't love me anymore.. we both find it very difficult to communicate our feelings.

Robdar

I've had a lot of emotional / mental problems, basically a breakdown so have found it impossible to fulfill my role as a husband for many years, emotionally and physically and she said she's had enough, although she's never talked about it before.

She went out and had an unplanned one-night-stand. I forgive me but she says she doesn't love me anymore.

We both find it very difficult to communicate our feelings. I want to change although it will be hard with my emotional, mental and physical condition and want her to stay but she will not even give me a chance.

So, let me see if I've got this straight:

You have a lot of emotional/mental problems and have been unable to fulfill your role emotionally and physically as a husband for many years? And you are surprised your wife has had enough of it?

After years of not fulfilling her physically, you are surprised she had an unplanned one night stand? You are surprised she says she doesn't love you anymore?

And now you want to change although it will be hard to do with all your emotional, mental and physical problems?

I don't know why you are surprised. And I refuse to believe that your wife has never spoken to you about her feelings before. I am more inclined to believe that she spoke to you about her feelings many times but you just couldn't get beyond your own needs and desires in order to listen to her. You are still not listening to her. Stop sucking her dry and give her a divorce.