Thanks everyone for your responses. I'm up early this morning to get Mom ready for her Doctor's appointment. She is so ready for this, she said she wishes the surgeon would start today.
Valis; Thanks for the idea of having her record stories. She's always been a great story teller. When I was growing up, she would tell me about her childhood and it sounded like something from a Disney movie. Her mom died when she was eight, and she was passed from grandparents, aunts& uncles, and older siblings. Each place had a story of it's own.
Mulan: Thanks for the idea of classmates.com, when I get a chance I'll see if I can find out anything about him there.
Mary: Thanks for the encouragement. The doc we're seeing today is known as "the knee man" so I guess he's done a lot of them.
Ascot: Thanks for your encouragement. Wish you well with your Mom too. When my mom had surgery several years ago, there was a home care nurse that came a couple times a week. It was a welcome break. Hopefully that will be available this time too. We've had a lot budget cuts in our state because of the economy and some elderly programs got the knife.
To everyone else, thanks. I'm going to slurp down my coffee and head for the shower in just a few minutes.
Sadie