Wow...Lotsa info to process. Thanks everyone!!!!
LB::
Actually, I have studied for around 3 yrs and my hub a little longer. When they first started coming over, I didn't study with them. My husband studied on the porch with the man. A little time later, I noticed one day when he (the jw) was leaving (I was peeking out the window) that his wife and child were sitting in the car. A good hour in the heat while he studied with my hub. I suggested to my husband that he invite the wife and child to sit with him. When it started getting cooler outside, I suggested that he invite them inside. Eventually, I began to study with them. For about the first year, we just asked basic questions: What did they believe? I never knew what they believed. My hub and I were brought up being taught to never talk to JWs. We were curious to know why no one liked these people. So, we learned about why they didn't believe in hell, their views on death, the soul, the 144,000, earthly paradise, trinity, etc. We spent the first year trying to convince these people that they were wrong. Of course, that didn't happen. Neither my husband nor myself really knew why we believed like we believed and we certainly had no scripture to back up our beliefs. So, we began the Knowledge that leads to Everlasting Life book, then the What does God Require of us? brochure, and now we are studying the United in Worship book. Most of our studies are spent just talking about things like kids, movies, etc. Also, when I find info or scriptures that make me "think" or question certain things, we will sometimes spend entire studies discussing that. My husband and I do attend the KH (irregularly ) and he has recently joined the TMS.
Esmeralda::
Thanks for sharing your story. I am proud that you have found happiness.
Flower::
I read your story. It was touching...and I feel for you. I hope you can find peace. It sounds as if your healing process is just beginning. Best of luck.
TeeJay::
I tried that url and got nothing. Thanks anyway
Room215::
For starters, are you familiar with all the ``can't dos'' that can get you kicked out? Lots of people who ctontrubute to this board have publish lists of these and will be glad to point them out to you.
I would like to see that. Waiting shared a few with me on my last post. A list of "can't do's" is
exactly what I am looking for.
drahcir yarrum::
LOL...Thanks for the laugh...
One::
Studying for 4 years? Not too long ago jw would not study with you for more than 6 month,
DO YOU KNOW WHY?
No, why?
BTW, jw are not part of the SOCIETY.
I don't understand.
Ddid you read the book CoC?
Is this Crisis of Conscience? I haven't read that.
My apologies if I didn't respond to each of you individually. I thank all of you for sharing this part of yourselves with me. Know that your story is a contribution to a very big and difficult decision in my life.
Thanks again..
sadie