Such viewpoints overlook the Scriptural view that our families and self-worth thrive when we love Jehovah above all
There's the rub, how the heck can they know what their God wants? How do you love a person you can't see, someone you talk to but he never answers. As with all religions somehow the priest class interprets what He wants and it always seems to be, give up your time and money to show you love Him, or rather..... give it to us.