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  Financially Are You Doing Better Than a Year Ago?

  by minimus in

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  this isn’t a usa question.

  is your financial situation better or worse or pretty much the same?.

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  Phoebe

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  Financially Are You Doing Better Than a Year Ago?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
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  this isn’t a usa question.

  is your financial situation better or worse or pretty much the same?.

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  Phoebe

  Worse, way worse, and next year when 'Brexit' happens, I dread to think where will be financially.
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  coughs colds and respitory ills

  by zeb in

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  do stil in jw attend the kh when they have the above?.

  some years ago it was the norm-meetings are sooooo important.

  whats the position these days?

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  Phoebe

  I was once told even if you have to crawl, you must go. It's a command. I remember missing a few meetings when one of my children was born and a sister in my congregation had a child just after me and she was at the meeting within hours of giving birth! I remember feeling a total failure because I'd missed a week of meetings.
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  Is Child Abuse An Issue That You Personally Have Seen In The Organization?

  by minimus in

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  as an elder, i saw one child abuse situation involving a man who wanted to be an elder and had i believe 8 children.

  he was not in our congregation when this all erupted.

  he denied it and moved to another hall and unbelievably, that body of elders wanted to appoint him since they believed his entire family was lying about him.

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  Phoebe

  Yes, we had one in our congregation. On the face of it, a very devout JW. The type of JW that would walk to the Kingdom Hall with his bible in his hand and snitch on anyone to make himself look good. Turned out he’d been molesting his daughters and no one knew until his eldest confided in a sister. He got away with it and is now remarried (mother of daughters divorced him) and is in a new congregation. Then of course, there is my own abuser. Highly respected elder, ex temp CO. He totally got away with it.
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  Being cyber stalked by an elder - and how I dealt with it!😉

  by stuckinarut2 in

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  ah...this is funny!.

  my instagram is set to public .

  i have nothing to hide.

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  Phoebe

  I have a public Instagram and business Facebook page and every now and then I'll see that a JW from my congregation likes something or makes a comment and I'll think 'so you are watching me, are you?'

  I do think they watch us, if they can.
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  1969 Awake on Education - A Sore Spot for Me

  by NotBlind in

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  my father would have started college 49 years ago this week.

  about three months earlier, the week he graduated high school, the awake!

  magazine came out with some very clear direction to teenagers.

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  Phoebe

  I was a victim of that magazine, too. I left school in 69 and wanted to go to college but was talked out of it to regular pioneer instead. So I had a series of poorly paid jobs, never achieved anything and am now mid 60s and suffering with anxiety and stress because we’re struggling to pay the bills. But, I made absolutely sure my own children got educated and went to university for which I was well and truly shunned in my congregation, but I didn’t care. It was important to me my kids got the education I was denied. That damn magazine article, it helped ruin so many of us!
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  London Protest 2018

  by josephus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  well today marks the beginning and biggest day of our protest at the london excel.. we believe it's a record number at around 100 exjws at the front door.. we spoke to lots of jw's and one young man studying who has quit after talking to us.

  we've been approached privately by jw's who thanked us for coming and the security at the event treated us very well.. if anyone wants to see some clips they are available on my channel the great apostate.. thanks to all for the support and love..

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  Phoebe

  Instagram is big in my old congregation among young and old. Of course all accounts are private but when I was part of the congregation I saw endless photos of conventions/field service etc. No one was on Facebook or Twitter because it was frowned upon. Not sure anyone would be brave enough to share photos of the protest but they might....who knows.
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  London Protest 2018

  by josephus in

  1. jw
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  well today marks the beginning and biggest day of our protest at the london excel.. we believe it's a record number at around 100 exjws at the front door.. we spoke to lots of jw's and one young man studying who has quit after talking to us.

  we've been approached privately by jw's who thanked us for coming and the security at the event treated us very well.. if anyone wants to see some clips they are available on my channel the great apostate.. thanks to all for the support and love..

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  Phoebe

  Well said Farmer Jim 1 and if you do it again next year we would like to come and join you.
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  London Protest 2018

  by josephus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  well today marks the beginning and biggest day of our protest at the london excel.. we believe it's a record number at around 100 exjws at the front door.. we spoke to lots of jw's and one young man studying who has quit after talking to us.

  we've been approached privately by jw's who thanked us for coming and the security at the event treated us very well.. if anyone wants to see some clips they are available on my channel the great apostate.. thanks to all for the support and love..

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  Phoebe

  Can I say something?

  I watched all the videos about the London protest and I thought what a great job they did. They were respectful, dignified and very brave. Yes, as ex witnesses they could just shut the door on the past and get on with their lives (and by the way, if you are one of those telling them to just get on with their lives why are you yourself on here? Just get on with yours and be happy) But they don't shut the door because they CARE. They care about others, those trapped in the WT, those who have or are suffering abuse be it physical, sexual or emotional. They CARE and they came from everywhere to show they cared.

  So, thank you to all of you. I was mentally trapped in the WT for most of my life. My life has been ruined by it. I applaud anyone that does anything to help others escape whether that is making a YouTube video, writing a book or turning up at a protest. Without these people I would still be trapped and so would my husband.

  Thank you to everyone and if you do it next year, we're coming to join you.
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  wizard of Oz JW style

  by Kevin McFree in

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  a one year special episode for watchtower to enjoy watching this week ;).

  https://youtu.be/1fx3vrkvaci.

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  Phoebe

  I loved it! I watch all your videos again and again. I find a lot of the exJW videos seem to trigger me into feeling depressed but your videos always make me smile and laugh, thank you so much for making them. I greatly appreciate all the hard work that goes into them.