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  Jw mummies boys

  by purrpurr in

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  i've had the misfortune to encounter quite a few mummies boys in the cult.

  men aged 20-40 who although in men's bodies think,act and behave like children.

  their mother's had them tied to the apron strings tightly.

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  FedUpJW

  Have you met jw mummies boys? Is it a common phenomenon in the cult? What do you think causes this?

  Oh hell yes! I knew of one that could not even have morning breakfast or noon meal with his wife. He had to go to mommies for breakfast and dinner. Supper was the only meal he ate with his wife. He could not make a decision, even simple ones without consulting mommy and daddy first.

  I believe the WT reference to "Mother" all the time is a factor. And the constant berating of using ones normal individual abilities without first consulting with "Mother's" chosen leaders is another. JW men are for the most part emasculated wimps!
  
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  Organizational Accomplishments - Building a Solid Digital Foundation

  by wifibandit in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  organizational accomplishments - building a solid digital foundation.

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aai46ng2f74.

  organizational accomplishments—building a solid digital foundation video will be considered the week of september 11, 2017.

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  Yeah, you're right, the guy with the girly-man voice actually says "...with Jehovah's erection" strange use of the word.

  Well after listening several times with volume up I believe you are correct..he did say erection. But in all fairness he probably had erections on his mind.
  
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  opportunity for fornication

  by road to nowhere in

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  ever see brother ugly who is 86 being taken to the doctor by sister frigid who is 65 and also not good looking?

  they have to have a chaperone or at least sit in back and front seats.

  or a man who can't bring the freezing daughter in the house when he stopped briefly by because hubby is not home.

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  FedUpJW

  I took an extended vacation trip with a woman friend some years ago. Funny thing was that even though we shared the same motel room several nights in a row we did not have sex.

  I guess in JW-dom if that is proof of sex happening I am in a world (see what I did there?) of hurt for all the times I bunked with guys in the same room to save costs when I was playing one night stands with a road band. Did that make me a homosexual?

  I have maintained for a long time that when a JDub throws around the term "sex mad" they are mirroring their own personality.
  
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  Using Illegal Means for Righteous Activism

  by John Davis in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  i wanted to get people's opinion on something.

  how do you feel when people use illegal means while performing their activism to shed light on the watchtower.

  there have been people who have illegally recorded conversations with elders and with branch offices or at meetings.

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  FedUpJW

  There is an old adage..."Fight fire with fire."

  Before the days of small digital recorders I was asked to participate in a JC inquiry about an alleged wrongdoing. When I arrived, of course the lying accuser was nowhere to be seen, just the three judges and the accusation. So I politely informed them that the entire proceeding was going to be recorded by multiple "eye witnesses" to their JC meeting. They excused me and said they would get back to me at a later date. I did not tell them that it would be angels, Jesus, and God himself "recording" everything said. Is that "spiritual warfare"?
  
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  JW Kids Bullying My Daughter

  by pale.emperor in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  trying not to type swearwords as i write this so bare with me.. my little 3yo attends meetings with her jw mum (who doesn't believe watchtower anymore but is stuck in because she relies on her family for help).

  my mum (the one who tells people im dead) had a party for her grandchildren.

  that's my 4 nieces and 1 nephew aged from 3yo-11yo.

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  FedUpJW

  So sad, and makes me as angry as one can be, but this is NOT an isolated incident in the JW community.

  This is the normal way of treating the young ones. I know personally of a young four year old that was sternly informed by her grandmother that she(the little girl) was, "going to die at Armageddon, and I am going to watch the birds pecking out your dead eyes!"

  A cult that promotes joy over other peoples deaths is nothing but pure poison.
  
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  August 1, 2017 BOE Re: Using and Maintaining Kingdom Halls

  by wifibandit in

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  august 1, 2017 to all bodies of elders re: using and maintaining kingdom halls.

  us.

  uk.

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  FedUpJW

  Break-ins, thefts, incidents of arson, or other acts of vandalism should be promptly reported to
  the local authorities.
  

  You should immediately call the branch office for direction if you learn of an accusation of child abuse...
  

  The first quote from a letter about property, and the second taken from their Shepherd The Flock secret elders manual about people. Pretty well says where their main concerns rest, in their own words!

  Damned hypocrites!
  
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  Sunday's W.T angered me + I found an ironic scripture

  by Isambard Crater in

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  2. bible

  during the "do you love me more than these" watchtower study on sunday, i got so angry on many occasions, hearing people make comments like "if you enjoy your job, you're an enemy of jehovah" and "the only reason we're here is to preach.

  work and relaxation only exist to help us to preach".. the paragraph talking about the "do more!

  " attitude in the world getting people down really got me down just reading it, as it applies so much to the borg.. i also found the ecclesiastes scripture quoted to be ironic, as the rest of the article tells is that nothing is better or more of a priority than to preach;.

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  FedUpJW

  Not to mention how would a person take proper care of themselves and/or their family?

  WHAT? That is a very selfish view of oneself and/or their family. Don't we all know that if we just ignore everything other than door knocking and parroting third grade answers to pre-arranged questions that Jehovah is going to magically make sure all your wants and desires, as long as they match the WT agenda, are met?
  
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  "For God Loved the World so much that he gave his only Begotten Son in order that ....faith ..not destroyed ..everlasting life.

  by smiddy in

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  or is their an inconsistency / contradiction here somewhere .?

  in genesis god allows satan after deceiving the first human pair to go relatively unpunished for thousands of years interacting between heaven and earth at will.. the so called punishment is not to take effect until thousands of years later.. in the meantime .. the wager ( ?

  ) between jehovah and satan over jobs loyalty in question ,and obviously satan still having communication with god in the heavens.

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  FedUpJW

  There is nothing in JW rules that prevent elders having occasional communication with DFed ones. In fact they are told to catch up with them once a year.

  That has actually changed now. No longer do they make contact with DF'd ones. Only if they should happen across them in their "serve us", and if the DF'd one is either known to them or informs them they are DF'd. Then they just give them the Return to Jehovah pamphlet. This told to me personally by the local COBE. Can't have those oh so important elders wasting time looking for "lost" sheep like the shepherd in Jesus parable now can we.
  

  Now why am I FedUp?
  
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  Marry only in the Lord

  by Jules Saturn in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  the second half of 1 corinthians 7:39 reads "...she is free to be married to whomever she wants, only in the lord.".

  so we all know that scripture for being doctrine for witnesses when they select a marriage mate and how they are strictly encouraged to marry amongst themselves and look down upon or marked if they marry an outsider.

  i have a friend who met a worldly man and when it came to light, her father gave her the option to end the relationship or to marry him, and she chose the latter.

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  I feel that deep down they'd rather a single woman not marry anybody at all because they know once she's married they can't pester her to do favors.

  That is so true.

  The religion couldn't care less if single women ended up poor or dead. This is why I was SO right to have never listened to these sonofabitches!!!

  Also very true, and GOOD FOR YOU.
  
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  JW renaming things: "It's Not this, it's ....."

  by Muddy Waters in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  this was brought up in another thread, but i thought it should have its own thread.

  feel free to add your own observations and experience.

  the jws are so duplicit, and they rename things to somehow justify their own irrationalities.

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  FedUpJW

  It's no longer types or anti-types...it's "lessons".