I don't think you are--but you don't treat me any different. Can't you prove to me that you are different with your words and attitudes? Must it always be abuse and bad words?
Reminds me somewhat of the attitude my ex-wife had.
She went on and on and on about how bad each of the previous men in her life had treated her, then said I was no different. I asked her what the one single common denominator was in EVERY LAST ONE of those relationships? When ANY woman (or man) accuse every other man or woman of treating them in a bad or abusive way, or they accuse a different political party of bad/abusive/racist/etc. behavior, they had better look at the common denominator. THAT is where they will find the problem, if they are honest.