When my wife was pregnant, the elders called a meeting with her about the blood issue in which I showed up and ended.
Then when meeting with the doctor in another city someone tipped off the doctor she was a JW. He asked her if that would be an issue and she said yes. I am pretty sure if she would not have said anything if no one told the doctors.
While giving birth , things were not going so well and the nurse said " she had visitors ". My heart just dropped. I thought was the elders. If you think you are not capable of killing another human, think again..................man I was livid. Turns out it was just friends but JW friends. I told them to go away.
I literally can't do it again. Sex has been few and far between for us,