Your deal breaker and evolution are two separate things.
Go ahead and believe in a divine or intelligent guide at the moment of abiogenesis. There's no evidence or science to base those beliefs on. However science knows little about that moment.
Ones belief in what the initial spark may have been has no bearing on the fact that all life genetically descended from one common ancestor.
So you see, your deal breaker isn't with evolution. Your deal breaker is with something science hasn't established as theory yet.