Clarky21

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  Have You Been “Gaslit”?

  by minimus in

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  gaslighting is a form of sustained manipulation that causes the victim to question or doubt their sanity, judgment and memories.

  it’s a form of emotional abuse.

  i think jehovah’s witnesses have been gaslit.

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  Clarky21

  Yes me minimus by my ex who was a jw but disassociated herself. Our marriage was a living nightmare. She accuses me of having a mental illness and also not remembering things that didn't even happen.

  Gaslighting happens a lot in the jw world
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  What is the most insensitive thing an Overseer or Elder has ever said and done to you?

  by RULES & REGULATIONS in

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  what is the most insensitive thing an overseer or elder has ever said and done to you?

  i have had many insensitive things said to me by some elders, but for some reason one self-righteous elder was always on my case.

  he didn't like the fact that i missed meetings, didn't like that i never went out in field service, that i didn't answer at the weekly meetings and he didn't like that i carried my books and magazines in my hands and not a service/book bag.

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  So my wife at the time had just given birth to my daughter, she was a couple of months old at the time. I believe my brother in law had his two year old in same row as me.

  The congregation were always a bit merciless when it came to noise from children. Anyway the po or coordinator came storming up aisle and said to me you will have to take your daughter out she is distracting the speaker.

  I took my daughter out totally fuming, then he went back and a couple of minutes later came storming back.up and told my brother in law same thing.

  After meeting I asked the speaker if he was distracted and he didn't have a clue what I was talking about. Anyway I was too mad to speak to this elder, would probably have laid him out.

  Anyway next meeting I tore a strip of him, he didn't do it again.
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  2021-March-S-147-English and German--Announcements And Reminders!

  by Atlantis in

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  2021-march-s-147--announcements and reminders.. english and german.

  https://filetransfer.io/data-package/jtoy3vol#link.

  another link:.

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  Clarky21

  Wow I couldn't believe one of the announcements on here. If you have extra meetings for scriptural discussion not good. So it affects the unity, the control part of this organisation is extreme, it is only when you have left that you see it