i have already gotten an email from someone stating that their gift arrived safely in the mail.
i thought it would be nice to start a thread where we can post what we got (for those nosey like me who want to know!
) and a thank you.. as for me, i haven't even begun yet!
I'm just here to feed all the still-waiting-ones chocolate
LadyLee what would we do without you?! LOL........
There are still a few waiting for gifts.....and please remember, that even if your gift does not arrive before Christmas Day, it will be soon! As far as I can tell, everyone was remembered!
since i am free from the chains of the wt and their rules, i am becoming so much more open minded to looking into other forms of spiritulity.
i just read comf's thread about his wicca experience and it was soooo interesting .
i know many on this board have their own way of dealing with their need for spirituality.
Deedee.....I can relate. I was (years ago) where you are now. What a wonderful journey you are ready to embark upon! (embark.....what a wierd word). I can't tell you where to find your answers...that is the glory of it. You have to come to your own conclusions, your own destination yourself.
But........
For me, my spirituality began with me recovering from the harmful effects done to me in my life. The overall "spirituality picture" was too large for me to look at, so I took "baby steps". I had to learn how to take care of myself. I had to learn that I was a good person even though I was being told differently by my parents and the borg. I had to learn to be truely heal those deep wounds instead of simply "putting a scab over it". It was a very difficult time in my life but well worth it.
It also involved going to different churches just to meet people and listen to what was said. I never joined these churches and very seldom ever went more than a few times, but I went to get out and see what else was out there. I loved talking to people and seeing what their lives were like. I found it amazing to listen to how their faith effects their lives.
I learned about different cultures and beliefs. I approached these with cultural sensitivity and respect. My greatest learning experience was with the American Indian culture. In fact, I became very close to many elders w/in that community who helped me see things in a different perspective.
Do you see what I was doing? I was enlarging my circle of life a little at a time. I learned that the differences are so unique and special between us. I absolutely loved being able to look at so many different ways of beliefs.
I learned to meditate. I joined a support group. I surrounded myself with "healthy" people that ended up being more closer to me than I ever imagined.
With every baby step I began to define my spirituality. Taking what I liked and leaving the rest. For me, life is best when it is simple. I have found renewal in my spirituality by nature around me. My spirituality is unique because it is mine! I was defined from my understanding. It is very personal and very special to me.
You will find it Deedee. Remember, it is the journey.....not the destination. Start simple, start small.......and enjoy every step of it!
i watched a movie on tv the other night called "the others" with nicole kidman.
it got me thinking about ghosts.
of course, my jw thinking automatically kicks in and tells me that its.........come on, you all know the answer.......demons.
*raises hand*.....yes, I believe in the paranormal.
well, today is the first day of winter.
winter here in canada is cold and long.
we have about 4 to 5 months of damn snow every year.
I love the Fall and Winter. Snow is great and as for the cold........I guess here in Northern Minnesota you get acclimated to it. Our blood just gets pretty thick!
its just not supposed to be like this.
i just put my jw husband on a plane to san fran so he can spend the entire holiday week out there, get this, dog sitting his nonjw brothers shitzus while he goes to visit family for christmas.
i told him i was going to miss him...and he replied, well "i wont miss christmas".
lovesdubs.......I am so sorry. I am at a loss for words but want you to know that I am thinking of you.
been here awhile now, mostly as a lurker, but while reading alot of posts, i feel justified in formulating an opinion on who the coolest person on this board is.
so my vote goes to ....drum roll.... .
valis .
Heaven I love it! LOL..........
Animal.......hopefully this next summer all three of your "angels" will be together for a photo op for you........only if you are nice though!
been here awhile now, mostly as a lurker, but while reading alot of posts, i feel justified in formulating an opinion on who the coolest person on this board is.
so my vote goes to ....drum roll.... .
valis .
Animals Angels!!
On behalf of Xenawarrior, Heaven and myself......
Who loves ya, baby?!
thank you joy!
your gift arrived yesterday, and in true mulan fashion, ripped the wrapping off immediately, instead of waiting for christmas.. i love the cups!
i love maxine!!!
true Mulan fashion, ripped the wrapping off immediately, instead of waiting for Christmas
Is this the same Mulan who wrote "Do Not Open Until Christmas" on her Secret Santa gift? LOL......
i have already gotten an email from someone stating that their gift arrived safely in the mail.
i thought it would be nice to start a thread where we can post what we got (for those nosey like me who want to know!
) and a thank you.. as for me, i haven't even begun yet!
Bump.......
ok i think i made a mistake.
tomorrow is dedes birthday, and since i will not be here tomorrow i want to give her gift today and post it here.
well this is what happened.. i was talking to a buddy, and i told him, "i don't know what to get my wife for her birthday.
Happy Birthday Sweetie! What a wonderful day to celebrate.......the day that DeeDee made her enterance into this world!
