What you are trying to do is label every dead Iraqi as being "the enemy". I think this is wrong.
No Simon, that is not what I am trying to do.
What I am trying to point out is that not every person in civilian clothes is a 'civilian'.
War is not a cut and dried, black and white situation. I admit that atrocities happen, they even happen outside war.
Soldiers are people, not robots, most are highly trained and can control themselves, some are not and can (or will) not.
People who have had a bad day at work, had an awful car journey home, cannot switch off their anger and frustration when they walk through the home front door, please try and think how much harder that switching off would be to someone who has been in a position all day where people are trying to kill him/her.
It is mostly a matter of people wanting to believe in the incidents rather than waiting for the whole of the facts.
This is not aimed at any particular person.