"It's not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me." (Batman)
You can't say you love the person and hate the sin, and then also say a person is defined and qualified by their actions.
Now kill all the boys. And kill every woman who has slept with a man, but save for yourselves every girl who has never slept with a man. (Numbers 31:17-18, NIV)
Wow, such a moral standard to live by, and to wish upon others as well.