God help me, I just agreed with sf. D.A.R.E. is nothing more than propaganda designed to perpetuate the phony war on drugs. This government needs drugs, and would be lost without Americans and their addictive tendencies.
Me, I'm a live and let live kind of guy. You want to smoke pot? Go for it. But let's not kid ourselves. It's self-destructive behavior. Yes, it is. I think we can all agree that cigarette smoke is bad for the lungs. Well, ignoring any pharmacalogical aspects of marijuana, there is at least the smoke in the lungs part that is bad for the body. Period. So anyone who smokes pot is harming their bodies.
Anyone who gets drunk is also harming their bodies.
Anyone who smokes is also harming their bodies.
We all know this, at least on some level. So while I'm a live and let live kind of guy (and very much opposed to the war on drugs), I tend to question the motives of anyone who smokes/gets drunk/smokes pot/takes any other drug. It's self-descructive behavior, and a person does not normally engage in such activity. So I would wonder why they are acting in that way, against their best interests.
It could be for as simple and transparent a reason as ignorant hedonism -- "it feels good, so I do it and besides how bad could it be anyway?"
Or there could be deeper emotional flaws at work that cause self-descructive behavior.
In any relationship I was in where my partner began to harm themselves, the first thing I would want to find out is why they are doing it. Not why they casually say they are doing it (we're good at fooling ourselves), but why they are really doing it. There may be an underlying cause that is affecting them emotionally and is manifesting itself in various ways, pot smoking included.
For those of you who wish to deny that you operate because of emotional causes, just tell yourself that I'm delusional and go about your merry way.