They would NEVER make disfellowshipping a conscience matter due to the family wreckage left in its past. Could you imagine you deserted your DF'd parents until they died and some didn't even attend their funerals. Anger would rise .
Posts by Chook
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Canadian Appeal Court decision made the news: Judges can overturn unfair church edicts
by AndersonsInfo inhttp://news.nationalpost.com/news/religion/alberta-appeal-court-rules-judges-can-overturn-unfair-church-edicts.
the other day, this court decision was posted on jwn along with a link to the court document, but few expected the media to pick up the story.
so to all involved, i understand it was a surprise to see the story in print.
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Posted 3 months ago "After 15-17 years daughter coming for a visit". No word since.
by James Mixon inthe wife told me it was more like 20-22 years since i seen or talked to her.but since that visit we.
we have not spoke to one another, not a word.
my family members (not jw) ask me have i called.
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Chook
It's interesting that it was those with JW power that recommended for her to visit. Because deep down they KNOW that this tearing apart families has no Christian origins .These hard arse bastards occasionally get soft and little bit of Norman human empathy gets through, till their next indoctrination lesson.
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Midweek meeting video
by aboveusonlysky indid anybody see the service meeting video this week?.
australian sister was sexually abused as a child and thought of ending her life at 14 years old, sometime later jw's call on her father who accepts a study and eventually the whole family becomes witnesses, life gets much better as the sister immerses herself in pioneering etc, she still has some dark days but prayer along with going for walks and swimming has helped her cope with bad memories of child abuse, the new system (just around the corner) will completely fix everything......... i'm dumbfounded, the hypocrisy has literally rendered me speechless......comments anybody?.
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Chook
The biggest accomplishment from ARC for those in is ,that the elders book is freely online and available and can't be removed or copyright laws don't apply. Not to forget the most epic statement from Geoffrey "presumptuous ". Australia's best JW lawyer said he never heard of theocratic warfare. These guys are at the pinnacle of PERJURY .
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How the JW family dies
by Chook infamily has problems ,they approach elders ,who in turn spiel what ever is latest memo from hq.
due to complex nature of cult affected individuals elder turn to cos for the curly problems.
this is where the death of jw family takes place.
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Chook
Family has problems ,they approach elders ,who in turn spiel what ever is latest memo from HQ. Due to complex nature of cult affected individuals elder turn to COs for the curly problems. This is where the death of JW family takes place. Along come 28 year old CO who has NEVER had normal job, never done his own research ,never changed a nappy (diaper ), had no brothers and sister in his own family because his mum and dad weren't meant to have children.
Family are stressed because 15 year old son has masturbation problem , he is watching porn frequently ,he refuses to stop. He is caught out by zealot sister who knows his iPad passcode .The porn is kinky ,elders refer to it as BRAZEN. They have spoken to Charlie 4 times, Charlie is apathetic . Elder think we will help this boy , they invite CO . The rest is history ,sick evil child can't be helped ,his eyes have seen evil porn in its most depraved ways , CO can't understand a couple doing it doggy style. Such an evil Charlie, we must protect the floc says CO. Charlie DF'D . This is only the beginning of the death of this family.
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The most sick statement put in JW print
by Chook inwt 1973 p568.
"did you know, for example, that mothers and fathers that stroke the genitals of their fretful babies to keep them quiet are unwittingly encouraging them to become maturbators later on?".
what sick fu... writing this article thought the the average person did this to keep kids quiet..
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Chook
WT 1973 p568. Says.
"Did you know, for example, that mothers and fathers that stroke the genitals of their fretful babies to keep them quiet are unwittingly encouraging them to become maturbators later on?"
what sick fu... writing this article thought the the average person did this to keep kids quiet.
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Are JWs the most gossiping people on earth?
by Londo111 inwe all gossip.
it is only human.
watchtower actually tries to instruct adherents not to gossip and it can land a jw in front of a judicial committee—some do try to follow this admonition.
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Chook
In any organisation the higher the control the more they qualify for the golden gossip award, im afraid JW hold the Oscar .
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Taking the Bible Lessons And Going To a KH For First Time
by Cold Steel ini've taken the bible lessons but have never attended a kingdom hall.
i was curious as to what point they begin to tighten the screws of control?
let's say you're a baptist.
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Chook
Cold steel
if in any way your journey is with another person eg wife ,children the mental dangers you will be exposing them to IS unacceptable . We are talking the smoothest sales pitch, honed over a hundred years . They ,WT have seduced some of the most cynical minds . By attending the KH you are waisting some of your valuable life . We all here have told you the stove is hot and we will be here to apply the bandage ,but we prefer our friends don't get burnt in the first place.
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How successful are others at getting ex-dubs together?
by dubstepped infor my first shunniversary i reached out to the local ex-dubs that i know.
i invited 11 total to join me in a little get together at a local restaurant, then back to my house to hang out.
one friend asked if he could invite others, and i encouraged him, and all, to do so.
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Chook
Dudstepped
I'm playing devils advocate here but some might live with believers still, and they are torn. I'm struggling with a wife who suspicious of Worldy people and JWs don't come near our house because I'm the devil. When I sort things out here, due to religious and marital conflict , all my fellow bloggers here will be welcome for an " apostate" gathering.
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I need to know more on why its a problem for me dating a JW girl.
by seekinghelpp inok not to throw no shade or no disrespect to the jw religion.
which i truly do respect because my girlfriend is part of but i just don't understand, i have researched so much about it.
so much about how its discouraged for her to be with me just cause of different religion.
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Chook
Your girl friend has been and is CULT affected , to no fault of her own. We as human never get to see all aspects of our fellow man . Your poor girlfriend no matter how nice and good she is , is wired different than all other girls due to indoctrination from a very manipulative organisation. Unless she is willing to forsake her family and religion and NEVER turn back , then your in for a tumultuous life.This is religious mafia, you can only leave in a box. If you think it's complicated now imagine having kids ,NO birthdays,no Christmas ,no tooth fairy, no valentine ,no Easter . I know you might think there is love ,but the hate that religion has for outsiders is greater than any love you have for her.
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fading/holidays
by Drifting Away inso for those that are fading, i have been fading for almost 6 months now.
havent been to a meeting, assembly, service, etc.
i no longer believe it is the truth.. how long did you wait before celebrating holidays, if in fact you are even celebrating them.
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Chook
When the epiphany happened and I no longer believed ,next week to the horror of my wife I celebrated birthdays. I tried to reason with her about the angels celebrating jesus's birth or that in biblical history they kept count of their ages. Life is to short, start celebrating what you feel comfortable with. We can start with little things ( if you have little ones it could be the tooth fairy).