The picture of paradise is not directed at kids as much as adults with the mental age or ability to reason as a child would be expected to have, so they work on everyone with a mental age of 3 to as you said 8. I was not exactly saying that you should carry her away with the swat example, it was an example of how brainwashing and self defense mechanisms work in the human mind. You could not carry her off, but you could leave her alone and force her to choose, the sad fact and I think that you might be blinded by love to this, is that she might NEVER CHOOSE YOU. I think she already wants you, but will not accept you if you choose to die in the fires of hell when their is no reason except for your complete ignorance, (I do not think that you are ignorant, she does because you reject jehoofa).
True her parents were dumb, I have dumb parents in my neighborhood and they had dumb JW kids, genetics does that, brainwashing aside.
Hell no I was never a Satanist, I am also somewhat of an estranged Catholic, and I have to admit oddly enough that exposure to the real living cult of Satan on Earth might get me to kiss the Popes ring, after begging forgiveness for my sins, I hear that Catholics allow this while Jehoofa does not.
One thing I would like to ask you is when did this begin or when did you meet this woman, then also ask yourself how long you are going to let it continue, a day. a week, a month, a year, a decade, or longer. Because the lady at the bake sale is waiting, and you won't have to deprogram her.
One more thing is that I have been watching videos of former JW's, as I want to know what they feel and believed that these should by logic be the intelligent ones. Sadly though they are not, in fact in my opinion they still do not know what is important, even though they have made a smart choice, so if this woman has problems, and we all do, don't assume that she will be a new person after the cult, some people might even belong there, just like some people belong in a padded cell.