@ Sanchy I was always a rebel, I ate thanksgiving food, x mas food at work. I didn't care lol
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The little things that made you feel guilty as a JW?
by HereIgo inwatching rated r movies?
maybe a little gambling in vegas?
when i was in high school i went to the mall with my friend at the time, who happened to be a female.
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When you might be discovered?
by confused3426 ini am still in my crossroads, and going to some meetings at times.
i have joined facebook ex jw support groups.
on friday one of my friends from my hall, texts me saying he saw a recommendation to join a group, and sees me listed as a member.
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Thank you @stuckinarut2, I will keep that in mind.
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When you might be discovered?
by confused3426 ini am still in my crossroads, and going to some meetings at times.
i have joined facebook ex jw support groups.
on friday one of my friends from my hall, texts me saying he saw a recommendation to join a group, and sees me listed as a member.
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@ incognito yes I am thinking of doing the same thing. I hope one day soon not to be a punk lol
and just tell them in their face yes I deleted you and I am done with WT, and drop the microphone and walk out!
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When you might be discovered?
by confused3426 ini am still in my crossroads, and going to some meetings at times.
i have joined facebook ex jw support groups.
on friday one of my friends from my hall, texts me saying he saw a recommendation to join a group, and sees me listed as a member.
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I deleted all my jw friends, and have blocked them. I feel the same way @longhair gal feels. Just b/c I see you in passing at the hall, doesn't mean we are really friends. @hoffnug I hope it doesn't take 3 years to fade away. I am ready to leave sooner than that.
raven.. I was thinking of doing that, but just felt like it was too much work for two facebook accounts. I hope he doesn't snitch on me, but if he does. I don't have to talk to the elders. They are just men, and I don't need to explain myself to no one!! I am getting my courage each day to stand up and if I don't want to talk to someone, I simply don't. I am getting out of my head, oh they mean well. NO they don't!! They are just trying to keep me in, and letting me mislead. I am done letting others think for me and decide what's best.
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When you might be discovered?
by confused3426 ini am still in my crossroads, and going to some meetings at times.
i have joined facebook ex jw support groups.
on friday one of my friends from my hall, texts me saying he saw a recommendation to join a group, and sees me listed as a member.
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@ Jw on the loose. Eventually I am moving and fading away. It's going to be crazy when they figured out I deleted them all, if I see them at the hall. I am thinking if I blocked them, then it will look like I got rid of my facebook. However eventually I will muster up courage and just say yeah I deleted you so what.
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When you might be discovered?
by confused3426 ini am still in my crossroads, and going to some meetings at times.
i have joined facebook ex jw support groups.
on friday one of my friends from my hall, texts me saying he saw a recommendation to join a group, and sees me listed as a member.
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I am still in my crossroads, and going to some meetings at times. I have joined facebook ex jw support groups. On Friday one of my friends from my hall, texts me saying he saw a recommendation to join a group, and sees me listed as a member. He asked if I was ok? I got nervous and scared he might snitch on me. So I lied and said my facebook was hacked. I know I am punk for not standing up for myself. I just can't have the elders force me to talk to them, when I am still gathering my research together etc. Plus I am going to leave when I want to leave, and not when they bully me to leave. I did delete all my jw friends today on facebook and blocked them. It feels kinda of good, but I am sure they will notice I unfriended them.
Just wondering if anyone has been in this same situation?
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ARC meaning
by confused3426 insorry if this sounds stupid, what's the meaning of the word arc i see so many use?
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Thanks
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ARC meaning
by confused3426 insorry if this sounds stupid, what's the meaning of the word arc i see so many use?
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Sorry if this sounds stupid, what's the meaning of the word ARC I see so many use?
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The start of a rough patch ahead...
by confused3426 inlast night i told my mom my true feelings on the organization and what i've learned so far.
it all started from a conversation, we need to go visit the new headquarters.
my mom has been studying and just recently became an unbaptized publisher in the spanish cong.
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@IloveTTATT2 I was looking for Spanish websites. Yes this is what I need. I have to keep it cool for now, and pretend to keep the peace with her for now. I will save these sites as my favorite, and share with my mom in the future.
@crazyguy nope I def don't want to be the sister who never married, never had kids and now lives alone in the nursing home. NO NO
I will soon start living my life!
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The start of a rough patch ahead...
by confused3426 inlast night i told my mom my true feelings on the organization and what i've learned so far.
it all started from a conversation, we need to go visit the new headquarters.
my mom has been studying and just recently became an unbaptized publisher in the spanish cong.
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@ Cadellin, I like your idea, just to slowly fade away. I feel that if I stop going overnight, then boom everyone will come after me and try to persuade me to stay. I am a woman in my 30's so I can move out. Right now I was at home for financial reasons, and to help my parents out financially. I do have plans for moving out in the near future. @toesup I told my mom the same thing that if my friends and family truly love me, just b/c I no longer think like them, doesn't mean they need to stop being in my life. They can stay in the organization. I just don't want to be part of it, after researching the many things you mentioned. I just feel like I discovered the Wizard was not real. My mind is blown away lately!! Like what is true and not true anymore.
@tor1500 that's what I plan on doing, is to do more for my mom and dad at home. Do things as a family, so she doesn't think omg she's gone off the deep end. I told her this morning that I love her so much, and that my love for her doesn't change. We can still be close as before. I know my Latino family and boy they can easily convince everyone to turn on someone in a minute. They think they mean well, but they don't. So I rather not have them in my business with my relationship with my mom. I am an only child, and hopefully my mom sees the need for me in her life and not just to push me away b/c I stop believing in WT.
@never a jw. You think Latinos do that, but my witness family follows the WT rules. When I was df years ago, I was shunned for 7 years from my cousins, aunt. They would be in the same room as me, and not acknowledge my presence. I see how they treat my other cousin who is df. I just don't want to experience that again.