Ughhh that word ENCOURAGE. Its up there on my annoyance bar with "appreciate."
As a non-JW, I told a JW of a JW suicide.
"That can't be very encouraging," she said.
🤔
"Encouraging for.... WHO? ME?" I asked.
"YES! You!" she replied
The callousness for the deceased blew me away. Add the layer of an assumption that the victim was contributing to my failure to accept the WTS as my Lord and Savior and the whole situation became mind boggling.