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27What did you do with your clothes?
by JH inwhat did you do with all your suits and clothes you had when you were a j.w?
do you still wear them?
edited by - jh on 12 december 2002 16:22:39.
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Holidays of Sadness
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{{{{{Waiting}}}}}}, Have you made any truffles yet?? I will include a few in your package just in case. I'm behind in getting things sent off this year. Look for something from Yankeeland next week.
Cheers and love,
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{{{{{{{{Intro}}}}}}}}}, What a treat it was to find you here. :) It's been a long time and I hope all is well with you. And yes it is all about the "love."
Cheers,
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Pope Ordered Cover Up
by Seven inpopes 1999 order directed law on how to handle a sex offender in priesthood
dec. 11 as pressure continued to build wednesday for cardinal bernard law to resign as head of the boston archdiocese, critics said they had uncovered a "smoking gun" that shows law and other u.s. catholic leaders accused of covering up sex abuse allegations were acting on the popes orders.
a group called the coalition of catholics and survivors said tuesday it had come across the document from among the thousands of personnel files that the boston archdiocese made public last week.
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Hey Reborn, Thanks for posting the "ENTIRE" article. I wasn't able to. No attempted cover up on my part I assure you. :)
Again more credible examples of religious leaders in power abusing the authority religion gives them over people who submit themselves to such nonsense.
Only after decades of lawsuits and media coverage will people finally wake up to religion. Probably not in our lifetime. It's become a business with only the "good politicians" not the good men among the leadership rising to the top. How sad for the sheep.
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Pope Ordered Cover Up
by Seven inpopes 1999 order directed law on how to handle a sex offender in priesthood
dec. 11 as pressure continued to build wednesday for cardinal bernard law to resign as head of the boston archdiocese, critics said they had uncovered a "smoking gun" that shows law and other u.s. catholic leaders accused of covering up sex abuse allegations were acting on the popes orders.
a group called the coalition of catholics and survivors said tuesday it had come across the document from among the thousands of personnel files that the boston archdiocese made public last week.
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I wonder what the actual chances are of any of these leaders being held accountable and serving time in prison? Their leaders or ours. I was listening to a radio talk show today where survivor's lawyers were commenting that the RCC has been shelling out millions over the past decade in civil courts. With the legal system as jacked as it is, it would probably have to be proven that the pedophiles were sent to other congregations with the sole purpose of molesting children. :(
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Pope Ordered Cover Up
by Seven inpopes 1999 order directed law on how to handle a sex offender in priesthood
dec. 11 as pressure continued to build wednesday for cardinal bernard law to resign as head of the boston archdiocese, critics said they had uncovered a "smoking gun" that shows law and other u.s. catholic leaders accused of covering up sex abuse allegations were acting on the popes orders.
a group called the coalition of catholics and survivors said tuesday it had come across the document from among the thousands of personnel files that the boston archdiocese made public last week.
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Popes 1999 order directed Law on how to handle a sex offender in priesthood
Dec. 11
As pressure continued to build Wednesday for Cardinal Bernard Law to resign as head of the Boston archdiocese, critics said they had uncovered a "smoking gun" that shows Law and other U.S. Catholic leaders accused of covering up sex abuse allegations were acting on the popes orders.A GROUP called the Coalition of Catholics and Survivors said Tuesday it had come across the document from among the thousands of personnel files that the Boston archdiocese made public last week. A court hearing lawsuits against the archdiocese had ordered the release.
Joseph Gallagher, a co-founder of the group, said the document was the "smoking gun" that spelled out a Vatican policy of placing image ahead of child welfare.
In the document, Pope John Paul II says a defrocked Catholic priest who had a history of molesting boys should leave the areas where his "condition" was known or stay put as long as it caused no scandal.
"That would explain why [other] bishops have done the same thing as Cardinal Law theyve moved sexual offenders from parish to parish without notifying the parishioners," Gallagher said.
The May 25, 1999, document is a translation of Pope John Paul IIs order removing Robert Burns, a convicted pedophile, from the priesthood.
Donna Morrissey, a Boston archdiocese spokeswoman, said she could not comment on matters of litigation.-Associated Press and ReutersEdited by - sevenofnine on 11 December 2002 15:11:42
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American Women.
by Englishman inwhat is it about american women?.
they sound so sexy!.
i've had a few conversations with american posters lately, and found it to be a highly enjoyable experience, but the ladies voices!
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Hey EM,
They sound SO sexy!
That's 'cause we are. You Brits sound more than just a bit sexy yourselves.Cheers,
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Happy Holidays(Merry Christmas)Dan and Double Edge!!
It feels so good to FINALLY be able to say that without looking over my shoulder. It's been buried deep in heart for so many years struggling to get out. I give myself permission this year to experience the joy without all the guilt. The lights, the tree, the cards, the cookies and parties. Most of all-the happiness.
Cheers,
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I thought I'd share this article I found today with those here who may benefit from it.
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By Brigitte Synesael,
Consumer
Your Life - Your ChoiceBrigitte Synesael founded Your Life-Your Choice in 1997, and is now recognized as an authority on Alternative Medicine Information. Her associations with governing agencies and certified practitioners ensure well researched, quality information. Her free newsletter, found at Your Life-Your Choice is an excellent resource for various types of treatments.
Grief and the Holiday Season
When you have lost someone very dear to you, the most difficult obstacle to cross is getting through the holidays. Surviving the days where everyone around you is celebrating and spreading good cheer, while your mind is filled with memories and your heart is heavy with loneliness. It's difficult just making it through what used to be the happiest days that were once shared with a soul mate, and today carries only emptiness. The greatest challenge is to remain in the company of others who love you, when you really want to be alone with your sadness.
It makes no difference whether the loss took place last week, several months ago, or even last year. The holidays always send those deep emotions flooding right to the surface.
Just as how you deal with grief is personal and individual, so is the way you handle the holidays. Remember to be true to yourself, and don t take on too much responsibility. Let people know that your plans may be subject to change, and you can't make long term commitments just yet. Be honest with yourself and with your friends and family about how you re feeling.
Some people find it best to start new traditions, because the past ones hold memories too difficult to deal with. Talk with your family about setting expectations. Plan together any modifications you will all make to the normal holiday festivities. You may want to have a church service dedicated to the memory of your loved one. Or make an annual donation in his/her name. Perhaps join the Hospice Tree Lighting ceremony. Bring joy to another child by purchasing a special toy for the Angel Tree in memory of your child.
It s a great idea, for both you and your family, for you to write a letter to them asking for their understanding. There is a terrific example of this at the following Web Site: http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Woods/4671/holidays.html. I encourage you to take a look at it.
Be honest about how you re feeling, but when ever possible, try to include a positive twist into your thoughts.
Instead of:
I miss my beloved so much, there is no Christmas without him/her.
Try:
I do miss my beloved. Christmas will be different this year, but I will try to enjoy it.Instead of:
I HATE this time of year. I can t wait until it s over.
Try:
This is a difficult time of year for me. But it does give me an opportunity to become closer to my family and friends.Some people heal best by helping others. Try volunteering at an organization who help people with a greater need than yours. i.e. A soup kitchen, a homeless shelter, orphanages, etc. Often the best therapy is helping others. Aside from the obvious benefits of keeping your mind occupied and seeing that there are others in worse situations than yourself, charity work gives you a tremendous feeling of fulfillment. It can give you a renewed sense of purpose, so important during times of sadness.
Above all else, give yourself permission to enjoy yourself, to laugh, and to find peace. Each of these things are part of healing. Your life will never be the same, but it will go on, and it can still be good. I want you to close your eyes for just a moment. Bring into the room with you the clearest image of the person that you have lost. Now say I love you and I miss you. You will always be in my heart. I need to know... is it okay for me to be happy again?
Now, imagine the answer that you receive. If you remember your loved one in their true light, I m confident the answer will be YES. Find peace over the holidays, and be good to you.
Sources that may be helpful:
- http://www.nfda.org/resources/grief/1998/blues.html
- http://dying.about.com/library/weekly/aa120899c.htm
- http://cincinnati.com/holiday99/handling_grief.html
- http://dying.about.com/library/weekly/aa122299c.htm
- http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Woods/4671/holidays.html
- http://www.kirstimd.com/blues.htm
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