Giordano, they will say "they" are not coercing you into doing anything. You signed up for this when you made your dedication to Jehovah. You knew about DF/DA. We're just here to help you live up to your dedication to Jehovah. And if you don't want to, you're free to.
The basic issue is dedication/baptism. I can't make an eternal vow. I'm imperfect. I misunderstand stuff. I misjudge the importance of stuff. I change my mind on stuff. I grow. I can't make an eternal promise. The concept a human making an eternal vow is stupid. If Jehovah existed, he would have known that.