The organization always looks good from a distance. When you get close ( regular attendence , field service, etc.) its style becomes apparent. Power and control. Methods and techniques to assure power and control. Unrightous coercion and extortion. Justifying dishonorable methods by pointing to honorable ends. Together these techniques are harmful to the members and unless one leaves one will will lose one's ability to make choices. Its similar to being in an abusive relationship and , despite the importunings of the abusive mate, once you see it clearly you must flee before you lose your ability to flee.
Siddhashunyata
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The Organization -An Enemy or Friend
by stevieb1 ini would like to ask you for your collective help:.
i am in the process of attending a judicial committee meeting with three elders because of my "speaking" of "apostate" ideas in the congregation.
they have made responses to some of my thoughts but i can't make a reply in turn.
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Bill Bowens Highjacked thread
by CC Ryder inbill bowen has started an organized effort to help innocent vicitms and their families to recover from the abuse they suffered and the way the wts has handled their cases.
he has started a thread to see if anyone among us here at jw.com would like to help in those efforts.. someone, who we are all familiar with, has disrupted bill's request with equally insensitive remarks and intent as that of the recently deactivated fred hall and bleep.
he states that he has the right to post anywhere and say anything he wants, well, hopefully simon has a different answer!.
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Siddhashunyata
Sometimes it is better to sacrifice our personal agendas for the greater good. It is obvious that Bill Bowen has steadily established that within the WT orb crimes have been committed against children. Why lose sight of that accomplishment and place a burden on this good man. He is trying to deal with the practical aspects of a movement that truly challenges the WTBTS. It is only natural that he organize the movement because it has evolved to the point of needing just that. In my opinion, at this time, it pretentious and premature to reduce to pedantics Bill Bowens call for help.
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Bickering - how sad
by Vivamus ini have just come back from a great mini vacation (two days).
i had a whole lot of fun and enjoyed myself immensely.
it is so good to be out of the borg and not be troubled by borg-rules anymore and just do whatever i wanna do.
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Siddhashunyata
I've noticed that the "bickering " increased shortly after Bill Bowen's disfellowshiping. Any thoughts?
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Most JW women are adulterers
by Faraon in1 corinthians 11:3
but i would have you know, that the head of every man is christ; and the head
of the woman is the man
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Siddhashunyata
Chelbi, sorry I posted to soon . Your feelings are certainly on target. Either way the WTBTS is destructive to a marriage unless both mates succumb. The Society knows what it is doing.
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Most JW women are adulterers
by Faraon in1 corinthians 11:3
but i would have you know, that the head of every man is christ; and the head
of the woman is the man
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Yes the WTBTS manipulates the males by holding their wives as hostages. If the male does not "reach out" he risks the respect and trust of his wife. When the marriage breaks up the general consensus is that the "brother" brought it on himself. That feeling of injustice is motivating many to post here . This stuff goes on and on because the WTBTS is a government that is protected by the First Amendment. Basically it can do as it pleases and ,as a voluntary member, you will suffer the consequences. This forum meets them on their own ground and represents a voice of dissent. That's why the forum must be protected. It represents a "leaking in' of democracy . A cry for justice against this high control organization . The weapon of choice is "disfellowshiping". That weapon needs to be ignored by the membership and this forum offers that opportunity.
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Non believers in god please.
by Monster ina poster( don't ask who said, it i don't want argument with the person) here implied a while ago that many of the xjw here no longer believe in god because they cannot accept the "fact" that they willl be destroyed during armageddon.
in other words you are looking for ways to discredit that you ( you.
meaning anyone) will be destoryed.
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Siddhashunyata
I believed.
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Non believers in god please.
by Monster ina poster( don't ask who said, it i don't want argument with the person) here implied a while ago that many of the xjw here no longer believe in god because they cannot accept the "fact" that they willl be destroyed during armageddon.
in other words you are looking for ways to discredit that you ( you.
meaning anyone) will be destoryed.
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Siddhashunyata
Belief and Non-belief are concepts. Together they are one way of looking at the world. Its important to understand that they both are the same. They are IDEAS. An alternative way of looking at the world is to get rid of IDEAS and just look. When this is accomplished, fear ceases and questions about Armageddon and belief become irrelevent. This does not mean you cannot participate in the acrobatics of idea juggleing . You can participate but you see ideas for what they are, limited symbols expressing , at best , relative but incomplete truths. Absolute truth can only be experienced directly, its what is , its LIFE.
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Siddhashunyata
Thanks anyway, I just saw Devon's post about an entirely different show tommorow.
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Siddhashunyata
Hawkaw, do you mean the program will be repeated or do you mean there will be additional material presented in a new segment?
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Bill will you escape the cult?
by libra_spirit inwill bill escape or will he get sucked back in?
granted everyone stands behind bills stand on child abuse, except ofcourse the abusers, namely the org.
i realize bill wants back in, so he can protect the innocents from the org policies.
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With respect . I am concerned that Bill may be put at a disadvantage by answering this question at this time. His agreement with your statements would be admission of Apostacy and he has denied this all along. Of course he can speak for himself but I would not lose respect for him if he chose to avoid a direct answer at this time.