Coming in late on this thread;
I watched the wedding and thoroughly enjoyed it. All the misery and suffering will continue, but for a couple of hours there was joy and happiness. I wouldn't say I'm a full on 'royalist' however, for the most part they do a lot of good work (supporting many good causes and charities), in particular William, Harry, Catherine and now Meghan joining them.
From the little I've read about Meghan she appears to be a self made woman; confident in herself and her abilities - she has also been involved with humanitarian work. Having a strong woman supporting Harry can only be a good thing. I thought her dress was awesome - there's elegance in simplicity.
I wish Harry and Meghan a lasting and happy marriage.