Lloydy Boy's letters are asking everyone to send funds directly to his bank
That would be very odd indeed, but how do we know that is his bank and not the lawyers?
Why did he confide in Kim Silvio? What was he hoping to achieve?
I don't think he really confided in anyone as such, my understanding is that he got caught and someone else (I presume his wife) told Kim. His admitting it to Kim was then an attempt at controlling her to prevent her from making it public or confirm it to anyone else. That's what I pieced together from statements by those involved.
Of course given the nature of what he claims to advocate for, and the fact that he's taking money off people supposedly for this "work", people absolutely had a right to know.
Can you imaging a CSA survivor finding out that someone they supported was potentially contributing to the sexual abuse of "girls" (the word he repeatedly used)? Anyone who is engaging the services of prostitutes anywhere it is illegal but especially in places know for major issues with sex-tourism and human trafficking has to know they could be seen to be contributing to abuse and lack all credibility if they claim they "care deeply" about victims. It's a massive conflict of interest.
It was absolutely right to expose this hypocritical grifter instead of allowing him to continue taking money off people and bullying other advocates out of the space.